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Hairzilla 2

405 replies

KungFuPandaWorksOut16 · 21/10/2017 11:08

Thankyou so much for so much support over the previous threads.

I thought a lot about how to respond to F1.
I told her without a proper talk I dont think I can put it behind us.
She suggested we meet up tonight after Ive finished work so we can talk properly.
F2&3 have agreed to be there so another repeat of her flying off the handle doesnt happen.

This time around Im hoping for an explaination and an apology now shes had time to calm down.

OP posts:
lurkingnotlurking · 21/10/2017 19:52

Good luck

WellThisIsShit · 21/10/2017 20:08

Hope it went as well as it ever could, and that you’re down the pub enjoying time with friends, rather than drowning sorrows.

Wine
Sadmum23 · 21/10/2017 20:30

Good luck - hope she realised that she acted inappropriately, got stuck in way over her head , panicked and hit out rather than take a step back and beg for your help. Whatever your behaviour has been beyond reproach.

wornoutboots · 21/10/2017 20:37

I hope you aren't saying "sorry" to her.
You have done nothing to be sorry about

Tapandgo · 21/10/2017 20:50

Fingers crossed she has drunk some humility before she meets you!

RavenclawRealist · 21/10/2017 20:57

Remember you have an audience this time if she has any sense she will put on a show for them if nothing else! Hear her out but even if she apologises and grovels remember what she was like 1:1! Ultimately you have to decide what is right but she broke this friendship she has to work to fix if

stealtheatingtunnocks · 21/10/2017 21:07

Think I'd have bailed. She's a drama llama

T00much · 21/10/2017 21:21

Hope it's going ok OP

KungFuPandaWorksOut16 · 21/10/2017 21:23

Friendship is over. Shes a twat.
Im Ok though

OP posts:
StarlitTrees · 21/10/2017 21:25

Glad you're ok. Life is too short to waste any head space on people like her!

Astella22 · 21/10/2017 21:25

Shock she surly tried to apologise!!!!

HashiAsLarry · 21/10/2017 21:26

Hope f2 and f3 are looking after you, and that she didn't attempt another round of abuse Flowers

LaContessaDiPlump · 21/10/2017 21:27

Sad hope you're ok Kung.

RavenclawRealist · 21/10/2017 21:27

Glad you are ok think of all the time you will save not dealing with this cheeky rude fucker anymore! I’m sure once you have time to process you will realise what a drain she was! I bet friend 2 and 3 will be happy to have seen her true colours too

Aeroflotgirl · 21/10/2017 21:27

I knew it would be, you would be wasting your time. People like her always think their right and never wrong. She wanted you to dance to her tune and apologise.

Cavender · 21/10/2017 21:27

I’m not surprised but I am sorry.Flowers

FlyingJellyfishInTheAttic · 21/10/2017 21:28

Kung I'm so sorry. Flowers

TemptressofWaikiki · 21/10/2017 21:28

Sorry you had to endure all this drama Kung but not sorry you're shot of this CF. In coming weeks, it will probably dawn on you more and more that F1 has been cheeky for a lot longer but you've been so conditioned to her fuckery.

LindyHemming · 21/10/2017 21:28

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Rescuepuppydaft2 · 21/10/2017 21:28

I can't say I am surprised, I hope you have f2 and f3's support x

ToadsforJustice · 21/10/2017 21:30

Oh dear. I thought that might happen. I hope you are really ok.

GabsAlot · 21/10/2017 21:30

fuck hop it want too bad

Gemini69 · 21/10/2017 21:30

omg what happened at the Pub Hmm

hope you're ok Flowers

Wishiwasonholiday1 · 21/10/2017 21:31

Hope you're ok, OP Flowers I've just caught up on your threads and I really thought tonight was going to be more positive. At least you know you've done all you can and given 2 different chances for her to redeem herself.

YouCantArgueWithStupid · 21/10/2017 21:31

Hope you got to say what you wanted Wine