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Hairzilla.

999 replies

KungFuPandaWorksOut16 · 19/10/2017 16:52

The next thread...

Fingers crossed for a nice update for you all.

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kalinkafoxtrot45 · 19/10/2017 19:29

What a CF bitch! I hope you are not too upset, OP. None of this is your fault. What a horrendous entitlemare she is.

questioning1 · 19/10/2017 19:30

Don't worry OP. Hopefully you're other friends will defend you to her. I also sort of hope she finds this thread and realises how ridiculous she is!!

Giraffewith2 · 19/10/2017 19:30

OMG! Detailed account of conversation please Shock

LazyDailyMailJournos · 19/10/2017 19:31

Sorry to hear this. Not surprised though - she was cheeky enough to blank you when you were trying to find out what was going on, then started mithering everyone else including your DH when you didn't instantly respond to her texts.

IncyWincyGrownUp · 19/10/2017 19:34

I read the last thread and had hoped there would be a grown up conclusion. Sadly not. Your acquaintance is a proper knobrash :/

Hateloggingin · 19/10/2017 19:35

Fruitcider- did you post the meme? If so I imagine it was for disabilist language, anything 'tard' stems from the full word (in this case crossed with 'fuck') and is therefore not on.

FruitCider · 19/10/2017 19:37

* Fruitcider- did you post the meme? If so I imagine it was for disabilist language, anything 'tard' stems from the full word (in this case crossed with 'fuck') and is therefore not on.*

Shock I went back to read it and can completely see why my comment was deleted, in my tired state and rushing around I read it as “fucking tit” not “fucktard” I feel absolutely appalled I even posted that I’m so sorry everyone! Confused

CoraPirbright · 19/10/2017 19:37

The mind boggles. Does she honestly think she is in the right or is she just going on the offensive to hide her embarrassment? We can only hope it is the latter - that at least displays a modicum of self-knowledge.

I am so sorry OP - it must have been horrid to be on the receiving end of that. I hope the brevity of your last post doesn't mean that you are too upset. Flowers

bluebells1 · 19/10/2017 19:39

OP details please! I hope you cut her loose.

SlothMama · 19/10/2017 19:39

I do wonder what planet some of these people are on, she gets mad because she offered your services for free without asking? If she was so worried about saving face she should have just paid for the voucher cost.

flutterby12 · 19/10/2017 19:42
Shock
HughLauriesStubble · 19/10/2017 19:43

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HotelEuphoria · 19/10/2017 19:43

Omfg- yes to sending her the link to the first thread, she is a disgrace.

Groovee · 19/10/2017 19:43

I feel sad that she cannot see where she was wrong. When was she ever going to tell you what she had volunteered you to donate? It was only because of F2&3 that you found out!

WoollyMollyMonkey · 19/10/2017 19:43

I would let the PTA know you want her to come and collect the voucher you have now agreed to donate. Then ring it through the till and say to her, that will be £45 (or whatever) please ex-F1.

Auspiciouspanda · 19/10/2017 19:43

😧

Ideserveaholiday · 19/10/2017 19:46

The next time she offers prizes to the PTA, they'll say, 'should we just check?'Grin

expatinscotland · 19/10/2017 19:47

This would just make me want to delete her from my life all the more. She's a CF.

TheMaddHugger · 19/10/2017 19:47

I suspect CF ex-friend has never apologised for anything in her life ever and people have swept past misdeeds under the carpet.

She really thought you would meekly just do it and not complain.

((((((((((Hugs))))))) KungFuPandaWorksOut16

TheEmmaDilemma · 19/10/2017 19:49

This is not a full and detailed account of what happened.

I have popcorn waiting.

TheMaddHugger · 19/10/2017 19:50

((((FruitCider ))))))

Dont feel bad. You didnt do it on purpose

Hairzilla.
friendlycat · 19/10/2017 19:50

Sad that she hadn't reflected on it all and tried to make amends. Though she had previously had ample chances as well. I suppose it just shows her true colours. But you rise above it and honour what you have agreed to do with the PTA as you are the better person in all of this.
Your other friends will support you and however hurtful and unnecessary all of this has been you are not the person in the wrong here. Sometimes it is the silly things that can break a friendship as it shows us the moral code that other people operate under. Your F1 is morally bankrupt.

TheNoodlesIncident · 19/10/2017 19:51

Well, I'll hazard a guess she's had her last free haircut... hope she thinks it's all been worth it she'd be wrong

ItsNachoCheese · 19/10/2017 19:52

Still got a page or 2 to read so placemarking on this one

Littlemissamy · 19/10/2017 19:53

Oh Kung, what a shitty friend :( I hope you’re not too upset.