Hairzilla.

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The next thread...

Fingers crossed for a nice update for you all.

Op has briefly updated a few threads back. Mabey she is busy or just upset to give a blow by blow account of every word that was said.

Oh well, now that she's shown her true colours, no more discounted haircuts, wash dry, last minute appointment, etc. Make her pay full price. She's the one that's dragging the situation. She could have just easily swallow her pride and apologise (even if she doesn't mean it).

Hold your head up high coz even after you try to give her an out 'ditzy' but hey ho, live and learn eh. If future meeting with your friends are awkward, it's on her. Keep your text messages in case she decide to bad mouth your business.

Cheeky, cheeky fucker!! How dare she?!

wtf wll actually im not surprisd lik i said why not aplogise yesterday

so she came in said it was all your fault for not just saying ok and flounced off?

pug why com round to mak a point of saying op is rong

shes had since yestrday to apolgise and realise what shes done i think shs a bitch

I agree with mission. You've already sorted matters with the PTA, there's no need to get them further involved. Just hold your head high and carry on as you were.

But take heed of F1s attitude, and don't be fooled by her again.

Wow, just

Ring back PTA woman. Tell her that on reflection if she could have a stern word you’d appreciate it - she’s wasted so much of everyone’s time.

Fgs is the disablist language really necessary?

wowsers

I'd send the thread links to the PTA chair, too at this point.

I'd be surprised if someone who is aware of what's been going on isn't already lurking...

So sorry op hope you’re ok?

This lady is not your friend. Distance yourself. You deserve better friends than this

Ring back PTA woman. Tell her that on reflection if she could have a stern word you’d appreciate it - she’s wasted so much of everyone’s time.

This, absolutely.

Surreal behaviour from anybody, let alone a friend.

I would completely ignore her from now on. Completely. No texts, no acknowledgement, nothing. Friends like that you can do without. Take heart that not one of several hundred internet strangers think you are in the wrong here. She's furious she's humiliated herself and you haven't backed down so a big well done.

Your 'friend' sounds like a cheeky, entitled cow. If I had a mate who owned a salon I would never turn up just as it was about to close and ask for free services - that's bloody outrageous! Mate's rates is one thing, but you bloody well book like anyone else and don't take the piss. This woman is not a friend - she's a user. I'm really sorry she's treated someone who is generous and kind as you in such a shabby way And well done for standing up for yourself

OMG I’ve just had a comment deleted for the first time. Sorry MNHQ, if you could tell me how I went wrong in pm I promise not to do it again!

Hope f2 and f3 ditch her too

OP, I am so sorry. What a horrible position to put a friend in, and then what an unspeakably horrible way to handle it.

I agree that rescinding the offer of a replacement is a bad idea, because the publicity could be problematic.

I don't think you need to approach anyone - they will need to approach you to get the voucher, and unless they are unlike any PTA I have ever encountered will be gagging to know your side, on gossip grounds. Just sticking to the basic facts, without editorialising, will show precisely what she is like.

How on earth she thought volunteering your services for a school your child doesn't even attend, and for such a high-value prize, at that, was okay is beyond me.

What an absolute cow. Do not mourn the loss of this "friendship" for one second.

And please do come back and tell us what F2 and F3 have to say about this outcome. Meanwhile, have a hug. You must be feeling wrung out.

What? Is she for real? How was any of this your fault?

No apology.
All my fault apparently.
Bonus points to the person who guessed a flounce would happen.

You
are
fucking
joking.

Cheeky mare! This is... arrrrgh I can't even find my words!

@KungFu, I totally agree w pp: We need a blow by blow of the conversation!! I just can't believe it!!

I am DYING to know how the hell she tried to turn this - her lie, her refusal to take responsibility, her loose generosity with YOUR time and money, her ducking TWO opportunities to just help out with the money (one only bloody £15!), and her getting shotty with YOU about her cock up - into your fault!!

OMG. No words. Deluded and CF.