Hairzilla.

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The next thread...

Fingers crossed for a nice update for you all.

No she doesn't have a child there. Her child won't be going to school for another 3 years!

Here's my recap.

PTA Raffle Prize, Mums to impress
KungFu Cut and a Colour Voucher, offered no less.
Head PTA lady asks CF "Are you sure, please check"
CF responds, oh yes, oh yes.
Friend 2 and 3 cry out "wow Panda, nice gift, oh bless "
CF selfless contribution of KungFu's time and cash
Who pays, who pays? Panda requests.
CF ghosts Panda, F2 and F3 join in with the mess.
£15 each - we're all mums with kids in a school class.
Whilst Panda's cubs aren't growing that fast
CF replies: No, you're kidding, my money's my own.
CF stands her ground -Panda can fork out for it. She's a clown.
Panda FB contacts PTA head, RE: miscommunication mess
Unreasonable Panda offers an up-do instead
CF needs to know "Is it sorted!", "how", "????" but Panda's in bed.
CF's annoyed, no ones replied to her texts.
PTA lady is going to call, but what to confess.....
HeadTeacher emails, PTA Lady's going to be stern
Ditsy 'Friend' will be told 'Ask before offering what not yours to give'
Surely it's a simple concept to get.

CF wants a meeting, at the salon she requests
An apology expected, twattery realised we guess.
KungFu Panda, poor girl is in for quite a surprise
CheekyFXXXXX has been told off, PTA lady gave her what for.
CF blows up at Panda, she's rich, jealous, stingy, heartless and more.
Abusive CF Salon Attack, KungFuPandas Upset,
CF flounces off, F2 and F3 comfort Panda with wine
CF rants on FB. Stabbed in back, friendship revoked. Pandas died.
"Don't play the victim, you liar, you lie F2 Facebook replies.
Public Spats are not for Panda, dignity, integrity reigns high.
Next day -F1- CF texts "Last night got out of hand, we was both in the wrong"
"I'm willing to put it all behind me if you are." She adds on.
'No apology, we are both to blame' That is taking the piss.
KungFu Panda delete this thread soon. Make that request.
Daily Mail readers will soon be informed on this mess.
Although all mumsnetters are keen to know what's next!
Lessons Learnt: Don't Offer what's not yours to give,
Don't broadcast your CFtwattery on facebook, it's public you see.
Cheeky FXXXXXs beware. You'll be exposed. Mumsnets the best!

Well done F2.

Just caught up on all of this. Bloody hell, it escalated since about 400 posts into the first thread. I can’t believe how much of a CF she is. Disengage completely from her, OP. You don’t want her in your life at all.

As it's a group friendship you need to think long and hard about how easy it will be to avoid her if you want to take a hard line about her awful behaviour.

If you want to move forwards being able to see her socially in group settings I would send: 'I disagree that I shared the blame but we've been friends a very long time and I'm willing to put it all behind me if you are' because I would have to clarify that I think she was wrong or it would explode out of me at the wrong moment

Totally unhelpful but I can't help imagining you offering her a free haircut to 'make amends' and her leaving with a green mohawk

P.s. new thread please. Can't leave you in this spot.

Oops, I posted my response before I realised there was a page 2, though I still thing good on F2

I wouldn't respond to her non apology, that way you're not accepting what she says and you're not having a go back, giving her more ammo. In fact, all you'll be doing is majorly pissing her off, she won't stand being ignored.

Silly bitch.

OP - you've kept the moral highground, well done. F1 is clearly unhinged and her rave at you has revealed what she really thinks of you. At least you know now and can move on.

OP balloonslayer posted the perfect response above, but I think you should wait a day or two before you decide if/how to respond, and ask F2 what she thinks of the latest text.

You are quite rightly hurt and angry, so take your time and don't go in half-cocked.

Is there another thread? Need to know what panda writes back....if anything

I would also like to know what the rest of the friendship group think? I would assume Kung would tell them about the "we was both in the wrong" text before/as well as telling MN.

I think Balloonslayer's text is a great summary of how this debacle looks to decent, reasonable people...

I think we need year end awards on Mumsnet.
Cheeky Fucker thread categories:
Neighbour
School gate parent
Parking
IL -open to all sexes
All Rounder

This CF is leading in the last category.

Honestly, what more is there to say? She (wrongly) expects an apology, you (rightly) expect one, too. Neither of you are going to get what you want.

I'd just not respond to her. There's no point.

F1 gives me the rage. I despise people like that. And that shitty passive aggressive Facebook status is exactly the kind of crap that made me quit Facebook (that gave me the rage too!) I don’t like people like that and I think that OP has been handled herself very well and should be proud of not being railroaded by this unpleasant person. Trying to claim that you were at fault too just highlights her selfishness

Is there another thread I don't know about? Or has OP decided to leave it in case DM are snooping?

I think at the moment the OP just doesn't have anything further to update.

It's been said a thousand times before in this and the previous thread, but seriously - wow, what an unbelievable CF.

All I can say is well done for handling this whole fiasco with the utmost dignity. I don't think I would've been able to. Protect your salon now, I agree with pp that she will probable badmouth you and your business. I wouldn't respond. Cut her off and focus on your real friends.

So I can go to bed?! 😆

The easiest way to respond is simply 'I have done nothing wrong'.

Late to the party but....she’s worried she’s not going to get her hair cut for free any more isn’t she?

Ignore the text, and any further communication from her.

You'd be a fool and a mug to even contemplate continuing a friendship or dialogue with this woman. Cut her out and move on.

I think it was a mistake to cover up for her verbal abuse in your second reply to the PTA woman.

This thread just gets better and better!

😁

Do not reply .
That is the only way to go.
You are a dead panda, remember?

As others have said it is quite clear that CF F1 has suddenly realised there will be no more free hair cuts .

Ignore her. She said some unforgivable things. Let her go somewhere else and PAY for her hair.