Hairzilla.

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Fingers crossed for a nice update for you all.

I knew she wasn't going to apologize, if she was sorry she'd have said that in the message.

Can't wait to hear how she's spun it into being your fault

Wow!

200 posts already. Marking place

CF threads are the best threads.

Sorry your 'friend' is an arse OP.

Placemarking

Not surprised she made it all about her and it not being her fault. I hope you suitably apologised for ever counting her as a friend and assured her you won’t make the same mistake again!

You lied so she wouldn’t look like a total fool even after how she treated you and is still trying to play the victim!

I agree with @MoronsandNeurons complain to the pta about her showing up tonight and what she has said to you. You seriously owe her nothing and she deserves to be shown up to the pta!

As in I'm sorry for you to have to find out this way that she's an arse.

That's not me announcing that your friend is an arse because I think you haven't realised that yourself.

Oh good grief. She's not a friend. Sorry this happened OP.

Just read the whole saga. What an entitled arse F1 is, in contrast to the lovely OP

OP come back and tell us how the conversation went!!!

OP may be a bit too busy and upset to rush back and satisfy our curiosity.

How was her failing to use common courtesy to ask you before volunteering your services your fault?

She must be on glue.

Well I'm a complete bitch so based on that response from your cheeky friend I would message the PTA and say following an unpleasant conversation with one of their members I know longer wish to make any donation to the raffle, politely suggests that this reflects rather poorly on the school and PTA.

Ignore any suggestions above OP, unless you tell us what happened (not saying you have to) we should not be giving you advice

I'm pleased with my points for flounce prediction but very sad for you that your friend turned out to be an arse.

Surely someone from the school's PTA is on mumsnet & recognises this?!

Placemarking. I need a cut and colour.

She's no friend, I would just distance myself from her, see the others separately. This is not the first time she's been cheeky, you've accepted it, part of her nature etc, that is doing her no favours. It would make me think that bit less of her. Just picture, if yiu did the same thing to her, I bet she would make it known to you, how out of order you are. She is not a nice friend.

Please please change your Facebook to show FruitCider's suggestion! Also, if you can, and are angry rather than upset, could you please come back and tell us exactly what the cheeky, cheeky cuntychops actually said?

OP what exactly was said??

I’m sorry Kung, that is shit. You must be pretty gutted now you’ve seen her true colours - always hurtful to find out how a ‘friend’ really feels.

Take heart that you have done nothing wrong, and the weight of Mumsnet is behind you

I disagree with the posters that are telling you to rescind the offer. You have contacted them, put them straight and have offered an alternative in place of her original "offer". Going back on that now would put you also in a bad light and I would also not take the advice offered here of contacting the PTA and telling them what has since happened as it's not really anything to do with them. What I would do, however, is have a long think of whether this friendship is worth it. It could be, as none of us except you know, but I hope (not in a negative way) this experience has made you at least re-evaluate boundaries and expectations with this friendship.

She's obviously (rightly) consumed by the embarrassment of her major fuck up. My school PTA is quite cliquey close-knit and this kind of mistake would attract much passive aggression, probably even subtle exclusion. She's obviously been trying to impress this group of parents, so she'll be unspeakably mortified and lashing out at you.

You can only hope that she is a decent person underneath and when the dust settles she'll realize that she caused the whole thing and put you in an impossible position.