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Original poster

Dh is simply a cunt!

107 replies

IWantABlueBanana · 15/09/2017 21:11

I am NBU

On day 3 of a bulging disc and the most horrendous nerve pain. Have 2 yo dt's, can barely squat/crouch, cant lift, certainly cant move fast. So far every nappy change has left me in tears with pain.

Yet cunty h is kidding on hes still 18 and fucking off to a fucking noise music event tomorrow... although when his wee chum phoned me last week like a 13 year old to ask if he could go cause he didnt have the balls, i said no!

IANBU to hope the fucker chokes on his glowstick right?!

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winglesspegasus · 15/09/2017 21:32

aqua
yeah but she cant lift the shit to get it out there.
fuckin dickhead
i would lock up the house tho

hareagain · 15/09/2017 21:35

Going to stick my neck out here... How long is he going to be out for? Can anyone else lend a hand? Is you normal routine that you pretty much cover responsibilities 50/50 between you?

WorraLiberty · 15/09/2017 21:37

Sorry to hear about your bulging disc, OP. I know how painful they can be Thanks

If you're on day three of it though, what was your reasoning for saying no last week?

E17Stowmum · 15/09/2017 21:38

That is not a nice word to be using on here. It is often used as an offensive term towards women. Please find an alternative epithet.

NeedsAsockamnesty · 15/09/2017 21:39

Kill him with a spoon

Pollydonia · 15/09/2017 21:40

Oh do one E17, were all adults and can say what we want Angry

MrLovebucket · 15/09/2017 21:41

YANBU you DH is indeed a cunt.

What are you going to do about your overall situation?

TheFirstMrsDV · 15/09/2017 21:42

It is often used as an offensive term towards women
not this again.
Cunt is an insult used against men, women and cats.
There are lots of swear words referencing male genitalia.

Dick, cock, dickhead, plonker, prick, bawbag, scrot etc .

Lets not get all silly about Cunt.

skyzumarubble · 15/09/2017 21:43

Yea he's a cunt and I don't say that lightly.

Hunkle · 15/09/2017 21:43

LTB

LTC

John4703 · 15/09/2017 21:45

YANBU he deserves to be kicked from one end of the music event to the other. What sort of bastard leaves the mother of his children alone and in pain? He is not worth kicking, phone his friends, tell them everyone on here wants him to suffer.

Original poster
IWantABlueBanana · 15/09/2017 21:46

Gad that took too long to reply, x posted, sorry!

Hes currently planning on leaving at lunchtime, these type things dont start til 10pm or so right?

If he walks out that door, hes not coming back.

I have a lovely dd6 who would do anything to help me, but its so fucking sad that a 6 year old who should be having fun with her friends would even need to cause her dads a twat.

mummy ollivander have had l3-l4 and sacro problem roughly twice a year since i was 14/15, can cope with the pain of that, quite used to coping on my own with it as hes self employed, its the thigh nerve pain thats killing me atm.

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Pollydonia · 15/09/2017 21:49

Have you told him that op?

MyBrilliantDisguise · 15/09/2017 21:51

He's 40 years old! Old enough to know he has a duty to his family.

winglesspegasus · 15/09/2017 21:54

when you feel better take that dd for a big treat.Grin

jay55 · 15/09/2017 21:56

Tell him he is fine to go, if he takes the twins. You need a day of rest from all of them.

fourandnomore · 15/09/2017 21:56

To be honest I meant lock the doors to stop him going as I can't believe he would even consider leaving you home in that situation with your dts of 2, mine are similar age and my husband is similar age and that is horrendous. So now, as you say, yes lock those doors if he does make it out as well. On a practical level though, if you have a friend you can trust to help you for the day/evening I would definitely get them to help you, please don't make yourself worse.

tigercub50 · 15/09/2017 22:00

Never heard anyone described as a balloon before

Miserylovescompany2 · 15/09/2017 22:01

I'd just leave the house at 11am - then return when you are good and ready forget to take the DC & mobile

TheSassyAssassin · 15/09/2017 22:01

Your DD sounds like a complete gem OP - hugs for her and you! Your DH sounds like a cocking tool! Angry I think I'd be putting his toothbrush to all sorts of uses in his absence! What a twat! So sorry. Hope you feel better soon Flowers

AnnieAnoniMouse · 15/09/2017 22:02

💐 you poor thing, that sounds really, really painful 😕

I hope you mean it when you say if he goes he's not coming back. Even if he doesn't go I really think you should consider whether you want to be with him. I'd be getting a divorce if it were me because he's a useless, nasty shit & I'd rather be a single parent than live with that twat.

Please be careful you don't make it worse & get whatever help you can. Family, friends or paid

Original poster
IWantABlueBanana · 15/09/2017 22:04

worra well he went to this same event last year to 'get it out his system' . Thee friends wife has a newborn too. Pair of them are unreal.

hare at least 24 hours. Have no family here, not many friends due to not being let out..., a neighbour friend said she would come over tomorrow night but presumably after the twins are in bed. 50/50? Ha no! He sees the 4 dc 2/3 hours a day if lucky.

I have another recentish thread under a nc, that would really help explain just why I am so angry, but I know a couple folk know this name so don't want to link.

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AGirlCalledJohnny · 15/09/2017 22:05

What Misery said. Say you're popping to the Out of Hours clinic, you'll be back asap, and then vanish. I wouldn't hesitate to do it, I'd book into a hotel for the night in fact.

ItsNachoCheese · 15/09/2017 22:06

tigercub50 could be the new word for cunt since that word is so very rude 😉😂

silverbell64 · 15/09/2017 22:09

I'd not want to be either of your spouses. You both sound bloody horrific.