Shellygirl I am a part time teacher with 2 under 3 currently. I am currently in the position that every month I am paying out £100 more than I earn before tax on childcare. It sucks.
I enjoy my job, and I know I need to work for my own health benefits which is why I planned for this siutation.
We have no local family support of any kind, one set of Grandparents refuse to babysit and live 2 hours away, the other lives over 4 hours ago. No aunts or uncles local either.
I had even discussed with my husband before number 1 came along the potential issue of INSET days and holiday dates clashing, in the long term plan. We are 'lucky' in the fact that we won't need holiday cover once they are at school. Luckily he is not a teacher so can book holidays but will reduce the time he can have off to do family things.
I am looking to move schools to teach in the same county as I my children will go to school to minimise the holiday issue.
Futher up the thread another poster moaned about schools being inflexible about meeting parents during school hours. Pre children I would happily meet a parent at 5pm/530pm etc. Sadly I now have a nursery deadline and work 45 mins away from nursery so I can't do that or I could but it would require my husband (who does drop off so I can be at school on time) to work a short day/take a short lunch and have to make up time another day that week - how is that fair? He does this for parents evening and other after school things about 10 times a year.
Us teachers can also be parents with the same issues.