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To want summer to be over?

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StewPots · 14/08/2017 10:57

Yes, I know I'm BU but I swear I have reverse SAD.

I hate the heat and humidity of the summer - it's either a scorching heatwave where you just sweat uncomfortably wherever you are, or it's pissing down but still hot so you get wet because putting a coat on is not an option.

I hate the lighter mornings because my insomnia gets even worse and I have a lot less sleep meaning I'm generally ratty for 3-4 months.

I hate the volume of people everywhere, the fact that you can't get into places, or onto beaches, and that the traffic increases a million fold so it takes forever to get from A to B. This works in cities with the infrastructure to cope, I do love being in a city and do just fine with the crowds in one, but in a small coastal town? Not so much. I appreciate tourists provide jobs (my own not so long ago) but when you just want to nip to the shop for bread and milk and it takes forever, it starts to drive me potty.

I hate the fact that there's bloody wasps everywhere and the fact that they stung DS on the mouth yesterday so he had to walk round with a cold pack on his lips and looked like he'd done 5 rounds of boxing.

I hate that I feel guilty for not being permanently cheerful because the suns out and have to hide my real feelings about it, which are basically "I hate this relentless sunshine, I want to curl up in the dark in a cold room and not have to go anywhere or see anything that's bright, sunny and lovely".

Yeah I know, I'm a grumpy ungrateful cow and I appreciate there are many (the majority) that enjoy the summer and all it brings, but I'm feeling really fed up and down about the summer like I do every year - I actively dread it in fact - and I can't wait for October/November when I feel happier, get more sleep, eat healthier and can listen to the sounds and smell the aromas that Autumn and winter bring... I can't be the only one, surely?

OP posts:
JacquesHammer · 18/08/2017 08:22

excited about Halloween please can someone explain this

We buy our clothes/home decor for the year Wink

TheFrenchLieutenantsMonkey · 18/08/2017 08:32

I loathe summertime. I know we need to sun to, you know, live and all that but does it have to be so bright and relentlessly beaming all the time. I wear sunglasses most of the time (even in winter) because the light makes my eyes hurt. Temperatures anything above 18 I'm uncomfortable.
In winter there is always the option of putting an extra jumper on and warm socks etc but I can't get cooler than wearing as little as modesty will allow.
So no OP YANBU.

Wincarnis · 18/08/2017 08:45

YANBU

I have hated summer since childhood
Sunburn, squinting, sweating, stinky barbecues etc etc etc

'Summer' clothes are horrid, silly florals and pastel colours - roll on autumn, black tights and comfy boots Smile

LoniceraJaponica · 18/08/2017 10:53

Unless you live somewhere with a different microclimate we haven't actually had that many hot sunny days this year. We had a mini heatwave in June, and one or two odd warm days in July, and yesterday was nice, but where we live the thermometer has struggled to get over 20 degrees for most of this summer.

selectedpicnicitems · 18/08/2017 11:56

Apparently SD lives in this mysterious microclimate lonicera Grin!

Delatron · 18/08/2017 14:55

I'm currently going camping in the SE. It's thundering and lightening. Car says 14 degrees. Wish it was relentless sunshine....!

LoniceraJaponica · 18/08/2017 17:16

It is 15 degrees here today Sad

scrabble1 · 21/08/2017 14:46

Week 5 of holidays here. Had migrane for two days in a row. Need some time alone! Can't think straight. Even bought poor hubby a card for our anniversary and got it wrong. Bought one for 25 years and it is 24 😖

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