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To ask what constitutes a 'spirited child'?

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malificent7 · 07/08/2017 23:22

My dd is lovely but she is what I would call 'spirited.'
She is definitely not the obedient type. I don't think that blind obedience is a god trait but she often does the opposite to what I would like or point blank refuses to cooperate. She will make a fuss if I ask her to help tidy up for example.
She is very demanding and wants my attention. She is a diva and every little scratch is a major catastrophe.
She is boisterous and likes to dance around and throw herself at me.
She loves to play pranks and has a wicked sense of humour.
At the moment she is prone to anxiety and is very clingy but I am working with her to get over this.
She is bloody stubborn, bossy and likes to be in control.
I love her to bits but bloody hell, I am exhausted and need a break...which she is reluctant to give to me due to anxiety.
She will not let me sit in peace and demands my attention if she senses I am still. We argue a lot but also have lovely, cuddly times.
She is 9. So is she spirited or is this normal? Any tips would be useful.

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ArgyMargy · 09/08/2017 18:59

Shatter someone's life? Really? OP posted in AIBU!

Farahilda · 09/08/2017 22:04

"she posted asking for help"

Unfortunately for her, she made an extremely poor choice in choosing AIBU, rather than Parenting.

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