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Aibu to think my date should have bought me a drink? Tight arse?

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Miamiabeer · 05/08/2017 10:01

Met a guy got on well.
Had two dates previous and split the bill 50/50 and always have done as I think the man shouldn't pay BUT last night we went out to the pub and I was ordering a cocktail and him a pint.
I said "oh il get this round and you can get the next"
He said "your cocktail costs more than my pint"
I didn't even think about the price,I just thought rather than us buying drinks separate.
So I just got the drinks separately.
I would of happily got a cheaper drink or got him a more expensive but at this point I was a bit taken back.
My cocktail was £4.25 and his best £3.65 so not a lot of difference.
Now I'm thinking he is a bit tight?

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SilverBirchTree · 05/08/2017 12:57

Also, see can you buy a cocktail that cheap? What kind of cocktail was it?

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ScaramangasThirdNipple · 05/08/2017 13:11

YANBU

Instant fanny clencher.

I'd rather find out a potential suitor liked to indulge in a little light serial killing than find out he was a tightwad.

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pilates · 05/08/2017 13:15

Get rid asap

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Miamiabeer · 05/08/2017 13:33

I'm not middle class at all ha ha
It was just a normal pub really that had a few cocktails on the menu.
Please don't judge me but we did sleep together after 3rd date ..and he was selfish in bed.
Wouldn't do anything,expected me to do everything (if you know what I mean) said his back was hurting and his legs and sent me on top Confused

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Miamiabeer · 05/08/2017 13:33

Our first date was a pub too

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Miamiabeer · 05/08/2017 13:34

Imagine if I took him in a fancy cocktail bar ,he would of had heart attack on spot

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ScaramangasThirdNipple · 05/08/2017 13:34

Please don't judge me but we did sleep together after 3rd date ..and he was selfish in bed.

SCARLET WOMAN!

Seriously, selfish with money selfish in bed. Always the way.

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CockacidalManiac · 05/08/2017 13:35

You slept with him after that?

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CockacidalManiac · 05/08/2017 13:35

Instant fanny clencher.

Indeed.

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Aeroflotgirl · 05/08/2017 13:37

So have you dumped him op!

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Aeroflotgirl · 05/08/2017 13:39

I don't know how you wanted to sleep with him after the bowling date, that would have put me right off him, i guess each to their own, hope hes history now, or you are in for a very rough ride.

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NurseButtercup · 05/08/2017 13:39

Please say you're not going to have a 4th date / another shagging session to double check he's really a selfish shag?

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Aeroflotgirl · 05/08/2017 13:40

The Nut and Squirrel which is an Ember Inn, do 2 cocktails for £7. We are Milton Keynes based.

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LoniceraJaponica · 05/08/2017 13:41

I'm only judging because he doesn't sound very nice, and why would you sleep with someone who treats you like this?

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Jaxhog · 05/08/2017 13:46

Run. Away. Fast.

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amusedbush · 05/08/2017 13:52

Does he have anything going for him? He sounds bloody miserable!

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BumWad · 05/08/2017 13:53

Eugh he sounds awful

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Moanyoldcow · 05/08/2017 13:56

Tight with money, selfish in bed? Seriously, why would you see him again??

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Dailystuck71 · 05/08/2017 14:10

Oh no he sounds awful.

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Ninglers · 05/08/2017 14:19

Pls dump and link to this thread (and lost his response).

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Ninglers · 05/08/2017 14:19

*post

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EmotionalTeaspoon · 05/08/2017 14:46

I bet he's exactly the same with his mates (if he has any). He'll have one of those stag tshirts somewhere with the nickname 'Tightarse Dave' on it

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eatabagofdicks · 05/08/2017 14:50

Skittles too right.

I hope you've dumped him now. Just send him a text saying 'not only are you a tight ass, but you're a lousy lay'. Grin

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Nikephorus · 05/08/2017 14:58

And I'm guessing OP had to pay for the condom because it was for her benefit and not his Grin

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