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Thread #6 The CFN look out upon Castle Doom and despair

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WhatIsThisWatt · 29/07/2017 20:21

Thanks C8 for thread title!

We're on #6 folks.

Bouncy castle delivery happening tomorrow.

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SwearySwearyQuiteContrary · 30/07/2017 07:47

Sending FU vibes to CFN from Australia too.

Marlinspike · 30/07/2017 07:47

Thanks Faith for the trello board - very illuminating. Adding God's own Yorkshire to the list of countries.

redfragglebiker · 30/07/2017 07:48

That trello board is OUTSTANDING. It truly is a thing of beauty to be admired. I bow at the feet of the trello creator(s)

TheMaddHugger · 30/07/2017 07:48

Trello. Oi how do I shut off autocorrect ?

mrsheathy85 · 30/07/2017 07:49

@faithinthesound let's hope so. I would've taped the whole door so they couldn't see out to ops garden too 🤣🤣

BruceFoxton · 30/07/2017 07:49

Hiya! Breakfasting in Malta awaiting news...

Pannnn · 30/07/2017 07:52

On our yacht off the Azores - mid-Atlantic but technically Portugal, awaiting update!

AdalindSchade · 30/07/2017 07:53

Didn't the planning people tell you not to do anything to the door? That tape may damage the surface when it gets pulled off and at the least it's antagonistic. I'm not saying they don't deserve it but that wasn't a very sensible thing to do.

Pannnn · 30/07/2017 07:55

Agree - I'd def. cut the tape off carefully - if CFN do it they could cause damage and have a claim on you, of some sort.

Cailleach666 · 30/07/2017 07:55

Hiya! Breakfasting in Malta awaiting news...

I am so jealous.

I want to be in Gozo right now.

SwearySwearyQuiteContrary · 30/07/2017 07:58

The Trello board is a thing of beauty and genius!

TreacleChin · 30/07/2017 07:58

I'd be taping up those doors too, it's a security measure. You can't just have anyone being able to walk into your garden, and if your own patio doors are open, seeing right into your house too... you could be naked!

Long shot, but by not securing access to your own property could it even render your insurance void if anything were to happen? I'd not be taking any chances.

Rattledickie · 30/07/2017 07:58

Checking in from switzerland

Mooey89 · 30/07/2017 08:02

I've actually now managed to RTFT before the next one has started!

Am in the south, have 4 year old who likes to bounce, will travel, have Gin.

Jg1 · 30/07/2017 08:02

Didn't one of the friendly police officers on here last night say that tape/cable ties would be acceptable??

MightyMeerkat · 30/07/2017 08:03

Been following from the beginning but first time posting! I'm a planning lawyer so have been following with interest!
OP, I would remove the tape too. You've got the moral and legal high ground here and you want to keep it. The doors belong to CFN and he/she could decide to make a complaint to the police that you've damaged them by attaching the tape. There's also a risk that in the event of a fire, the CFN wouldn't be able to get out.
That being said, I think you should block access to your garden but from within your garden. I'd buy a big wooden planter and fill it with gravel. I'd then stick a post in it with a sign saying "PRIVATE - KEEP OUT"!
Because the window has always overlooked your garden, CFN could claim a right of light but he/she can't claim a right of access - so you can block it but not fully by erecting a high fence etc.
I'd agree with what others have said too that this will take months/years to be resolved through planning enforcement. You need your lawyer to go back in the strongest terms possible ASAP to put CFN on notice that you will pursue this further.
Good luck.

WildKiwi · 30/07/2017 08:06

Waving from New Zealand Smile

Liongirls · 30/07/2017 08:08

Good morning all.

Been following this amaaaaaaazing thread since Thurs but was running about 12 hours behind (pesky work!). Finally caught up live on thread the fifth yesterday tea time. Took me all day! 0 housework, chores or even food shopping done!!!
Then 30 mins of sheer panic last night trying to find thread the 6th, oh the sheer joy upon finding it...

Faithinthesound the Trello board is fantastic, a thing of beauty, well done all 😄👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Wattyyy maybe link it at the start of each new thread

Mum2OneTeen · 30/07/2017 08:09

Another watching from Australia! Good luck, this has been an absolutely unbelievable saga, but riveting to read. Hope you get your garden back OP!

SchadenfreudePersonified · 30/07/2017 08:09

Borgia

only my enemies call me Lucretia

. . . and not for very long . . . Grin

SpaghettiMeatballs · 30/07/2017 08:10

FWIW I agree with mightymeerkat. I would worry about taping up a fire escape.

Keep your moral high ground OP.

faithinthesound · 30/07/2017 08:10

I didn't start the board! That was @C8H10N4O2. All I did was the cast of characters (and that, I only transcribed from the pictures there, adding my own remarks here and there) and the List of Events :)

Liongirls · 30/07/2017 08:13

Sorry @C8H10N4O2! You've done an amazing job 😊

Thanks for putting me straight on that faiths the sound

laura1206 · 30/07/2017 08:14

Sorry if this has already been mentioned but can you put some fake cctv cameras up to scare them into not coming into your garden? They really are cheeky fuckers, I can't believe how cheeky they are!

Liongirls · 30/07/2017 08:14

*faithinthesound argh autocorrect!