To not want DH to go to to Thorpe Park because tbh im jealous?

[MummyMiddleton]

I am almost 6 months pregnant (due Nov. 10)

DH and I have been invited to Thorpe Park next week. I have said there is no point in me going as I wont be able to do much apart from eat and sit on the fake beach. But DH still wants to go. I really want to be ok with him going but at the same time I am VERY VERY jealous. I love theme parks and thrill rides. I live for them. I cant wait to be able to go on them again and one day we can take Daniel too. I know pregnancy doesnt last forever and I would rather have our baby than a one day fun experience. But it still hurts to see other people having fun when you are not

Should I ask him nicely not to go or should I just bite my tounge and say fuck it? Its either I upset DH or I upset myself? Aibu?

ProudBadMum

Wtf is wrong with you? I never said for a minute I would go on the rides. I said AIBU for not wanting my DH to go. No fucking way am I going on a ride and hurting my baby, no idea how you read that in my OP

Well this turned fucking weird.

It was a fucking joke... and what's wrong with me? Read my name

The BTEC doesnt cover pregnancy. Its training for working in an early years setting. Not for midwifary or anything like that. It trains you for nursery nursing, pre school jobs etc. Nothing to do with pregnancy

Not useful in pregnancy but once baby is here the best advice I can give is do what works,don't do what doesn't work. If you're both crying it doesn't work.
Now read the leaflet,take notice,get up and dust yourself off. It's not the end of the world.

I'm sure Daniel will love a gaming day I'm surprised you didn't opt for the name Alex or Steve tbh

RebelRogue

It feels like the end of the world. I feel like I have betrayed or failed him in some way. It feels like I can feel him being let down. Its strange, bit its like I can feel how he is feeling.

Its ridiculous, I know he has no idea what is going on, but still

Chill down. It's a day at a theme park, of course he should go. Do something nice for yourself instead of depriving him !

Iwishyouwerehere

Alex is my brothers name and Steve sounds like an old man

lilybetsy

I am having a gaming lock in party for 2

How old are you, OP? It has nowt to do with anything other than a slight derail of: what the hell is Minecraft all about? I don't get it. My DS1 & 2 both adore it but it's nonsensical to me. They don't do survival mode (only 7yrs) but have been recommended it as helping their coding. What is the point of it?
Anyhoo, YABU - you've been before, you'll go again (depending on yer pelvic floor) so let him go. Read Hurrah For Gin or similar, to get you in the zone for your impending plus 1.

This escalated quickly. 😐

Im 26. Its just so free and fun. You can do whatever you want, there are no rules or pre set boundaries.

IHateUncleJamie

Yes it did. Also, loving the Love Actually inspired user name

Good God. This is a joke, right?

Oblomov

What makes you think that? Im just a young, slightly shitty first time parent. Ill be a pro by the 2nd one, whenever that will be

Well, that escalated quickly! Well done on running a business and being pregnant. But that wasn't my issue or the point I was making. But I think you know that.
If you can run a business then I'm sure you'll work out whether you are BU or not.
Enjoy the rest of your pregnancy.
(I love the name Daniel, btw).

If this is reall it's really rather concerning.

Lloyd

Thanks x I think deep down I know I was BU. I will love my gaming/reasearch day x

Bluntness100

Why? You were probably shit as well your first time

You need to learn to relax about things otherwise you are really going to struggle when baby is here.

As a slight side note do you have plenty of support? Your posts on here come across as quite erratic and dramatic as if perhaps you are struggling slightly with all the changes? (Not a dig, just an observation)

MummyMiddleton you sound very young and not quite prepared for parenthood but you have time.
Let OH go to Thorpe Park (Although Alton towers LEGOLAND and Chessington much better) step away from minecraft ring your local hospital and book some parent craft sessions (bit like minecraft but with really grown up rating)
😘

Sirzy

We have plenty of support. We have eachnother and mumsnet mainly. But our families are fab too, just dont see them that often and we forgt to call/text

Sorry, I'm just placemarking. Can't dress it up.

Thorpe Park was a bit rubbish though when I went.

Was the name deliberatelythe same as dantdms lol?