My 5 year old son requested at Christmas time he could have longer hair, it's not long long perhaps keeps it at a young mason disick length.
My MIL has said he better have had a haircut before a family party later and she sick of him looking like a girl.
He has his ends trimmed every 6 weeks, hair isn't straggy or messy.
The deal was he can have his hair long as long as he takes care of it burshing it, having it out his face or up at school.
MIL has basically said not to bother coming when I told her DS isn't due a haircut for about 4 weeks.
So I think we just won't bother going AIBU?