I feel sick please tell me I'm being stupid

[maddiegrayson5555]

Namechanged for this long so bear with me .. so today I was shopping with my dd picked up too much stuff so called her grandad (my dad )who lives close by to help me back home we entered a shop to pick DD up a toy and in the store she started creating cos she wanted said toy . there was loads of customers& everything got a bit flustered and her grandad lifted her out the pram and was playing with her on this toy whilst I paid ... as we exited the store I noticed a wet patch on his shorts by his private parts i said to myself he must have wet himself (sorry to be graphic ) but i kept looking all the way down the road and the stain had tried a white sort of colour that's no wee colour
.the wet patch was not there before we went into the store and my head was turned for a few minutes now I'm.panicking could he have done something to my dd in the minute I had my head turned or is there and innocent explanation to this?? I can't calm down and don't know what to do next please help

And why are you so scared of outing when your username is your name??

Obvs not her real name

you can only hope it's a name of a character, and not the name of a "friend" or neighbour to be spiteful.

Oh OP I really think you have a problem here.

You state time and again that you do not want to make more of this than it is. A lot of posters have come up with multiple reasons for this. However, you are still pressing ahead and have asked a relative to intervene. This will destroy your relationship with your father (assuming he was not responsible for your abuse, which could account for your extreme reaction). A person who cannot control themselves to the point of having to abuse a child in a busy store, with multiple witnesses and CCTV would be quite prolific and well known to the police. In fact had this happened, your father would have been stopped before you left the store and detained.

I think you need more counselling to work through your past, as you do have a real problem to have jumped to this conclusion. Are you with your childs father? If you are, or if aren't and he has access, there is a high likelihood your anxiety will also turn on him, teachers at school, child minders etc.

The amount of CCTV cameras in stores these days is unreal. I think there can be upwards 20 in the foyer alone of your average supermarket. There's not a lot they miss.

That has presumably been tried.

The thread gives many an uneasy feeling, to say the least.

I know.

The OP's contributions are unnecessarily graphic and repetitive. I don't think this thread is helping the OP in anyway. Usually the poster will begin to open up and discuss their situation as the thread progresses so that others can support or advise. This isn't the case here.
In fact, I'm unsure what the OP's motives are in starting this.

Terrible thread and clearly of no benefit to anybody.

Ignoring the massive jumping to conclusions, practically, could he really cum in his pants while simply playing with your daughter, in the 20 secs you weren't looking?

Also, cum does not leak through pants like that.

MattBerrys is the useful post. The rest of it is pretty much hysterical MN as per usual

This thread is literally making me squirm.

I am really genuinely sorry for victims of sexual abuse, but I am struggling to believe the OP.

No matter what my dad had splashed on him, I would never, ever, in a million years, think he had sexually abused my kids.

Wow!

Never heard the saying "creating" but if your dd was having a fit/tantrum it could possibly be tears/snot

I've also had yoghurt/milk/food thrown or dropped on me by young dc and then been in such a rush to do school run I've just dabbed it with water or wet wipe and it then dry white & crusty

CCTV is a good point. Perhaps to put your mind at rest you could ask to see the footage? Make up some kind of excuse like your daughter came home with a toy that you hadn't purchased and you're worried she may have taken it without you noticing....? As we all know there is unimaginable evil in this world so don't feel bad about maybe being paranoid

@Notaclevername

I didn't realise schools had broken up for summer already...

Why do people assume if there are threads they regard as troll threads, that is must be schoolkids?

In my opinion, and from what I have seen on forums, it's often economically inactive people in their 30's, 40's, and 50's, who are trolls.

What's more, schoolkids could do it in school time anyway! They have the internet anywhere and everywhere, and they are usually home from school by half three pm!

I didn't realise schools had broken up for summer already...

They have in some parts of the UK.

I don't believe stores will give you cctv. SJaNH
You can a request a copy of cctv of yourself, but not other people ( and that's if the store will even give it you)

You think you father is a peadophile? That's pretty extreme OP. Why do you say so - there must be some reason you think this as this isn't normal train of thought.