I feel sick please tell me I'm being stupid

[maddiegrayson5555]

Namechanged for this long so bear with me .. so today I was shopping with my dd picked up too much stuff so called her grandad (my dad )who lives close by to help me back home we entered a shop to pick DD up a toy and in the store she started creating cos she wanted said toy . there was loads of customers& everything got a bit flustered and her grandad lifted her out the pram and was playing with her on this toy whilst I paid ... as we exited the store I noticed a wet patch on his shorts by his private parts i said to myself he must have wet himself (sorry to be graphic ) but i kept looking all the way down the road and the stain had tried a white sort of colour that's no wee colour
.the wet patch was not there before we went into the store and my head was turned for a few minutes now I'm.panicking could he have done something to my dd in the minute I had my head turned or is there and innocent explanation to this?? I can't calm down and don't know what to do next please help

I don't know what's going on here, but semen doesn't soak through trousers and dry white. In addition its highly unlikely a man got overly excited and orgasmed/ejaculated in the store.

I really don't know what this is, apart from someone accusing their father of being a paedophile, with nothing else to go on than a stain on his trousers.

I really really hope this isn't real. It's sick.

I really hope this family member either doesn't talk to your dad or at least words it extremely delicately.

My grandad was incontinent. There would often be white when it dried - I think it's the salt.

I think some of the posters on this thread should be ashamed tbh.

Creating means having a tantrum [I think].

I really don't understand this, a million thoughts would go through my mind before I arrived at that one. You are risking yours and your DDs relationship by taking this massive leap. If it was the final piece of evidence needed, then fine, but it seems like you are getting a bit in front of yourself here.

And why are you so scared of outing when your username is your name??

I do find it strange that someone who has a kid, and so is aware of semen, how it works, what it looks like etc, actually thinks it could be that in her dad's trousers after picking up his grandchild.

OP, listen to the majority of people here and actually think about what you're saying and accusing your dad of. You've also alerted another family member to the fact you think your dad is a paedophile. Be prepared for the shit to hit the fan.

Water can dry white!! Sorry but your poor dad !

user1498665532, thats nasty

Creating means having a tantrum [I think].

I can confirm. I was often told to "stop creating."

Come on MN common sense here, you really think it's acceptable to leave a thread like this up!

The best thing to do op is to contact your relative immediately and tell them NOT to contact your dad. Even in the unlikely event that you are right this isn't the best way to go about it

VERYBUTCHYRESTINGFACE I often say 'creating holy hell' for when someone has made a scene etc. I put I think in brackets in case someone corrected me!

Do you genuinely think your father is capable of doing something to your daughter? Presumably you didn't before as you called him to come help.

What was your relative's reaction when you called them? Were they shocked.

I would advise you to have a considered think about what happened, see how your dd is tonight, and see if you still suspect your father abused her. If so, then I'm sure there are knowledgeable people on this thread who can help with the next steps.

Hopefully there's an innocent explanation to all of this, a bit of sick or he wet himself, something not so sinister.

Men dribble onto their trousers after having a wee sometimes. If they are diabetic then the wee can be white from the sugar in their urine when it dries .
Get help OP I know you have been abused and I am truly sorry but this is not evidence of him being a paedophile.

Even if he was somehow a peado, I highly doubt he would cum in his pants with no stimulation, just picking up your daughter would surely not excite him enough?
Then even if by some miracle he did fun in his pants, he than makes no attempt to hide it?
I don't think so somehow.

I often say 'creating holy hell' for when someone has made a scene etc

Yes, my mother would report of me, "wee teeny bash is creating again."

Takes me back.

Are you Scottish? I'm wondering if this is a Scottish expression.

Which would probably mean...

People are being incredibly harsh on here! As a survivor myself I can absolutely understand and empathise with the suspicion and distrust of every male that the OP is exhibiting. Throwing biscuits and implying she is being ridiculous is not helpful AT ALL!

Op, in the kindest possible way, there are many much more likely explanations. My ds (9) leaks frequently and it dries white. If your df has a urine infection he could leak without realising, and as pp's have said ejaculate is too thick to penetrate underwear and outer clothing in such a short period of time. Don't accuse your df of anything, just observe for a while. If you have a counsellor run the situation past them. If you don't have one then perhaps consider getting one as your past experiences are affecting your perception of others.

Op, this is your DAD!!!! Do you know him or not? How was he towards you?
You should know him better!

I've seen so many post deleted. This still standing baffles me
Op if this is genuine, then there's a thousand things I would jump to before assuming that of my dad!

Urm....

Really?

No words...

VERYBUTCHYRESTINGFACE no Welsh, so a Celtic thing maybe!

Hope your relative tells your dad and your dad goes no contact with you after you destroy any relationship he can with you and your daughter. Then you can tell your daughter that you have sent graded away. Keep her away from all men for the next 17 years and then she can go nc with you for ruining all her future relationships.

There is some good advice on the thread and it would be a shame for it to go.

really?!? It took long enough for the "smug friend" thread to be deleted - and I didn't report it , but this thread is really takes the

If you want to be a troll, it looks like all you have to do is create a handful of decent posts, then start.. well this. No words.