I feel sick please tell me I'm being stupid

[maddiegrayson5555]

Namechanged for this long so bear with me .. so today I was shopping with my dd picked up too much stuff so called her grandad (my dad )who lives close by to help me back home we entered a shop to pick DD up a toy and in the store she started creating cos she wanted said toy . there was loads of customers& everything got a bit flustered and her grandad lifted her out the pram and was playing with her on this toy whilst I paid ... as we exited the store I noticed a wet patch on his shorts by his private parts i said to myself he must have wet himself (sorry to be graphic ) but i kept looking all the way down the road and the stain had tried a white sort of colour that's no wee colour
.the wet patch was not there before we went into the store and my head was turned for a few minutes now I'm.panicking could he have done something to my dd in the minute I had my head turned or is there and innocent explanation to this?? I can't calm down and don't know what to do next please help

if he had ejaculated in his trousers, I don't think it would appear as white liquid on the outside of his trousers?

I think your feelings and worries are down to your childhood experiences.

OP if this is real then you really do need some therapy.

The whole situation just doesn't make sense and I think you obviously have some very deep unresolved issues to leap to the conclusion you have.

Mumgonecrazy it wasn't tears or snot or food none of us had anything on us she was not crying .it was a small round patch of wet which then dried into white .the patch of wet was where his "willy" was I could see it because his willy was sticking out a bit . I know I could be being irrational and there could be another explanation for why that was but there was something leaking from his privates

Shouting but no tears or snot

So has the relative spoken to your dad? Please say you didn`t get that far.

I don't think MN is the place for this and you need to get professional support for your concerns.

So everyone's saying under no circumstances is it possible that it could be anything sinister cos people never do evil things and nothing bad ever happens.. . Even tho it's happended to me and I'm trying to protect her from that ..how would you feel then if a teacher or someone who worked with your children and you saw the same thing that you honestly would not be concerned ?

I didn't say that. There are many evil people.

I think you need help OP because the leap you have made & your absolute insistence you are right is just not normal, I'm sorry.

There is no denying child abuse occurs and unfortunately by male members of family, including grandfathers. Why bring teachers into the discussion, that's not what happened?

But how closely did you inspect his crotch and how quickly did it dry?! You are even at pains to say it was near his penis!

If you saw his willy sticking out (as you've said above!) why didn't you lead with that instead of telling him he had wet himself?!

Have you ever had cause to feel uncomfortable around your dad before, OP?

Yeah but you can't suspect everyone and fling around accusations out of thin air at your own dad, which is what you've done.

You should get some therapy.

The OP didn't say her DD was abused in a public place but she suggested her DF may have been aroused. That's my reading of the situation.

OP, this is a really odd thing to assume out of the blue... Are there any other things you're worried about?

It could be absolutely anything! Dribble (from either of them!), a sneeze, dew from outside the shop, condensation or liquid from something in the shop, a drink... or maybe your dad has developed a weak bladder! seriously, it could be anything!

So 10 pages into the thread you now say he was exposing himself?

Do you think if your dad was a paedophile he'd choose to abuse your daughter in the middle of a shop.

OP, surely your dad must've noticed there was a wet patch on his shorts. It seems odd that neither of you mentioned it.

she suggested her DF may have been aroused

That's a possibility but it's still a huge leap to think it was her toddler daughter causing the arousal.

I don't think she meant he was exposing himself when she said it was sticking out a bit.

His penis sticking out of his clothes was quite a big bit of information to miss out of your OP. MN should pull this.

I have reported this saying that if OP is real she needs help.

It's fairly obvious when a man has an orgasm in my experience. Definitely not something you could do in the veg aisle with no one noticing.