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I feel sick please tell me I'm being stupid

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maddiegrayson5555 · 28/06/2017 16:57

Namechanged for this long so bear with me .. so today I was shopping with my dd picked up too much stuff so called her grandad (my dad )who lives close by to help me back home we entered a shop to pick DD up a toy and in the store she started creating cos she wanted said toy . there was loads of customers& everything got a bit flustered and her grandad lifted her out the pram and was playing with her on this toy whilst I paid ... as we exited the store I noticed a wet patch on his shorts by his private parts i said to myself he must have wet himself (sorry to be graphic ) but i kept looking all the way down the road and the stain had tried a white sort of colour that's no wee colour
.the wet patch was not there before we went into the store and my head was turned for a few minutes now I'm.panicking could he have done something to my dd in the minute I had my head turned or is there and innocent explanation to this?? I can't calm down and don't know what to do next please help

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GlitterRoseGold · 28/06/2017 18:15

Op you should have said something straight away when you seen it

toastandbutterandjam · 28/06/2017 18:15

Right. It wasn't a toy shop, so there were no children. Was anybody in the shop? Apart from you, your dad, your daughter and the workers?
Again, did you mention the patch to your dad? An adult could have spilt a drink/milkshake/something on him?

Honestly Op, I know you're anxious. Anxiety is awful, I have various mental health issues and they're difficult to live with.
What did your relative you spoke to say? Do they think the same as you?

RebornSlippy · 28/06/2017 18:16

minionsrule Delighted to have the opportunity to speak to someone like yourself. Can I ask, why you are so bothered that MNHQ haven't yet 'done something' about this thread? And apart from deleting, what exactly would you like them to do? And why are you so bothered?

I know I'm totally off topic here, but time and time and time and time again I've seen so many 'reporting' on threads by people, like they're fighting fucking crime they take it so seriously.

Why? I'm genuinely intersted in your thought process.

OnionKnight · 28/06/2017 18:17
Hmm

So you think your dad is a nonce based on a suspicious stain on the outside of his trousers near the crotch?

RebelRogue · 28/06/2017 18:17

and im not making more of this than I need to .

Understatement of the year.

RebornSlippy · 28/06/2017 18:17

Or should I just start my own thread about this I wonder. Or does that constitute a TAAT, which would open me up to a world of "reporting"?

JustMumNowNotMe · 28/06/2017 18:17

I can't say I'd even notice if this happened to my dad, you know, on account of not studying his crotch.... you always check out peoples crotches so studiously OP? Confused

Sunshinegirls · 28/06/2017 18:17

I agree checkingusername. The OP has suffered abuse, as a result is understandably very protective of her daughter and suffers from anxiety. Has experienced a situation that she can't explain and that triggered her warning bells , OP panics and comes to Mumsnet for support. Instead of support she gets completely flamed and repeatedly reported.

kali110 · 28/06/2017 18:17

I think you need to get help op.
You are going to ruin the relationship between you and your dad and your dad and dd now.

FinallyThroughTheRoof · 28/06/2017 18:19

"If he was a paedo"
Hmm x 10000000

SomeOtherFuckers · 28/06/2017 18:19

Also diabetes causes crystallisation in urine sometimes so it dries white, it could also be an excess of salts like potassium or chlorides- these cause a white cast when dry. A uti can also cause white sediment in the urine.

There OP - several reasons why it could be urine and white .

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 28/06/2017 18:19

Sorry UNcle Jim, but cousin Mandy wants to know why there was spunk on your trousers after you held your grand daughter?

There's not a lot on MN that makes me laugh,the place is grim ATM but that made me properly snort!

OP, seriously this is utter nonsense!

ToniMumsnet · 28/06/2017 18:20

Evening all. Thank you for (all!) the reports on this thread, which we appreciate. We've taken a good look at it and we just wanted to let you know that we have no reason to suspect that the OP is anything but genuine. There is some good advice on the thread and it would be a shame for it to go. Thanks everyone.

EdmundCleverClogs · 28/06/2017 18:20

Are MNHQ in the pub as number of people have reported this thread

Well the last rather unbelievable thread I read today (started by a poster with no posting history) was deleted because people were not being nice enough to the batshit op. So quite possibly they're all down the pub in my opinion.

Op, no one on here can give you the help you need. Perhaps speak to your GP?

mintich · 28/06/2017 18:20

Isn't ejaculate a bit thick to have come through underwear and trousers?
If she was creating, are you sure it wasn't snot?
I feel like you want us to say it's something sinister......

SheSaidHeSaid · 28/06/2017 18:21

People report for various reasons.

It's unfair on genuine users to be trolled. Threads can be triggers for others and when OPs get a bit of a bashing it might be best it's looked in to by admin as well so they can get help.

PatMullins · 28/06/2017 18:21

Please don't share personal experiences on this thread.

ExpatTrailingSpouse · 28/06/2017 18:21

FYI my 4 yo DS still leaks pee in his pants occasionally and If he's wearing certain clothes it does dry with a whiteish stain - especially his khaki coloured shorts.

mintich · 28/06/2017 18:21

@SomeOtherFuckers that seems more likely!

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 28/06/2017 18:22

Can you ring and speak through your concerns with an impartial person? You can speak to the NSPCC anonymously or even the Samaritans?
Do not speak to other family members if there are no other concerns. You are making a very serious allegation against your dad.

hmcAsWas · 28/06/2017 18:22

Really MN Towers? Hmm

kali110 · 28/06/2017 18:22

Just because your dd is 19m, doesn't mean she isn't going to throw up!
Do you honestly think he would do anything in the seconds you were paying?
In a busy shop? With you right there? I know they are opportunist but this maybe pushing it., especially considering you've never thought anything before.

caffeinestream · 28/06/2017 18:22

Please don't share personal experiences on this thread.

This x 1000.

minionsrule · 28/06/2017 18:24

Reborn who rattled your cage? If people report a thread then i would expect MNHQ to at least comment they are looking into it...... not saying they have to just delete it. What is the point in being able to report if you are concerned if the reports are going to be ignored Hmm

muddlefuck · 28/06/2017 18:24

What is 'creating' ?

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