I feel sick please tell me I'm being stupid

[maddiegrayson5555]

Namechanged for this long so bear with me .. so today I was shopping with my dd picked up too much stuff so called her grandad (my dad )who lives close by to help me back home we entered a shop to pick DD up a toy and in the store she started creating cos she wanted said toy . there was loads of customers& everything got a bit flustered and her grandad lifted her out the pram and was playing with her on this toy whilst I paid ... as we exited the store I noticed a wet patch on his shorts by his private parts i said to myself he must have wet himself (sorry to be graphic ) but i kept looking all the way down the road and the stain had tried a white sort of colour that's no wee colour
.the wet patch was not there before we went into the store and my head was turned for a few minutes now I'm.panicking could he have done something to my dd in the minute I had my head turned or is there and innocent explanation to this?? I can't calm down and don't know what to do next please help

Is this real?
You've mentioned it to a family member with no evidence except a white stain?

Haven't read through the entire thread so it may have been mentioned but cum stains on material do not show up white unless cum was splattered onto the material. It would be a dark patch that looked like wee.

WannaBe - I would have said a jammy dodger, but I think the red area might be a blood stain.

Wannabe I think it stems from a when Gordon Brown was on MN and he kept refusing to answer a question on what his favourite busicuit was, so I think it now sort of means "I refuse to engage in this nonsense." and it often generally reflects "I think this is bullshit/trolling/goady fucker"

OP, I know some of the posts on this thread might seem a little mean and piss takey, but that should help to calm your anxiety really.

Honestly, in the absence of anything else to go on, you are jumping to horrible wild conclusions.

Wow

And if it was real, as soon as you saw it, you would have mentioned it to him. I certainly wouldn't let my dad walk down the street without mentioning a wet stain on his crotch. And you must have been staring at it a hell of a long time to see it dry. 0/10

I am so sorry you are so upset. Your mind must be racing at a million miles an hour because you have been abused and you are worried about what you saw. I would step back from this thread, because thete is all kinds of ridiculous shit that people have written on it, and give yourself some space and time to calm down. Is there a neutral person you can talk things through with?

Then I made an excuse and got dd away quickly then rang a family member i trust can't say who as could be identifying and they are going to ask him

My brain is actually smoking trying to imagine how that conversation will go. 🔥 🔥 🔥

This thread isn't gonna survive long enough to make the Daily Mail. And I have doubts whether even the DM would touch this.

We have no idea if what you are thinking is right or wrong. People should not speak to you like this. Sorry

This reminds me of the poster obsessing about a possible make up mark on her DH's shirt.

Op that's quite an assumption to make - you're own past must be maxing you anxious and understandably so. Have you ever had any counselling?

Op that's quite an assumption to make - you're own past must be maxing you anxious and understandably so. Have you ever had any counselling?

This all sounds pretty unbelievable.

Maybe he suffers from spontaneous ejaculation...

I can't even express how mad a leap that is. Any liquid with salt in it dries to a white crust.. this includes water. That was what I was thinking, if clothes are sweaty particularly.

Maybe he suffers from spontaneous ejaculation...

Don't encourage her.

So he drove? Maybe he in a non sexual way rubbed past the car, I've done it many times if some tool has parked close etc if car is wet I become wet, dusty shut water from car dries white. Or maybe it's washing powder I can't tell you the amount of times I've had spunky looking leggings and water does not remove the stain, maybe he rushed to help you noticed it and we've all done it, thought yeah that'll come out and left and it was drying.

This is very sad, indeed.

You have no reason to believe your father is a paedophile, yet you are going to ask another family member to ask him? I would be destroyed if I was your father.

I just...wow.

It could be anything. Milk, milkshake, banana. It could have even been another child that spilt something on him as they walked past. Didn't you tell him he had a wet patch?
I have been abused, but this is not something I would even think of, especially if I had no reason to suspect the person.

Do you have any mental health support? Maybe it would help calm your fears