I feel sick please tell me I'm being stupid

[maddiegrayson5555]

Namechanged for this long so bear with me .. so today I was shopping with my dd picked up too much stuff so called her grandad (my dad )who lives close by to help me back home we entered a shop to pick DD up a toy and in the store she started creating cos she wanted said toy . there was loads of customers& everything got a bit flustered and her grandad lifted her out the pram and was playing with her on this toy whilst I paid ... as we exited the store I noticed a wet patch on his shorts by his private parts i said to myself he must have wet himself (sorry to be graphic ) but i kept looking all the way down the road and the stain had tried a white sort of colour that's no wee colour
.the wet patch was not there before we went into the store and my head was turned for a few minutes now I'm.panicking could he have done something to my dd in the minute I had my head turned or is there and innocent explanation to this?? I can't calm down and don't know what to do next please help

ZestyLimeAndKiwi well, OP has no problem accusing a potentially innocent man of abusing her daughter on a public forum, and if the Daily mail or similar pick it up who knows where it could end up....

Bubble liquid from a toy in the shop? I would assume either she's spat up or split something on him tbh. If you were stressed out he probably didn't want to say oh look your DD spilt stuff on me so didn't mention it.

If you are suspecting your dad over something this small, do you think maybe you've been secretly worried about him all along?

I can't even express how mad a leap that is. Any liquid with salt in it dries to a white crust.. this includes water.

This thread doesn't seem rational at all.
Have you had any counselling for your own past abuse?

'he could still have been turned on if he was a peado .' This is your dad, you are thinking he held your dd and then ejaculated whilst In a toyshop?
So you think he's possibly a 'Peado'as you put it??

Also obviously reported

please tell me I am not the only one to have reported this thread!

If the OP is genuine, which seems unlikely, then to leap to such a conclusion suggests serious MH issues which require urgent intervention.

I'm not sure if someone with such a level of irrational thought should be in sole care of a young child.

Lets see. Your dad picked up your baby daughter just held her and now he's managed to shoot one off in what must be a very short space of time without that much in the way of simulation mental or physcial?.

And presume as grandad must be what 40 odd?.

Amazing bloke who can do that !

I didn't assume the worst straight away I saw the wet patch honestly thought it was wee and and then looked again as it dried. Then I made an excuse and got dd away quickly then rang a family member i trust can't say who as could be identifying and they are going to ask him .

TBH it really does sound like someone just wants to talk about ejaculation etc

You sure look at your father's crotch a lot.

Then I made an excuse and got dd away quickly then rang a family member i trust can't say who as could be identifying and they are going to ask him

Are you shitting me?!

Your poor dad.

I hope this isn't real.

" he could still have been turned on if he was a peado ."

and you have never noticed any cause for worry before? really??

I think your past experiences may be colouring your judgment of this incident, OP - have you sought help to deal with what's happened to you?

I agree, Truelove.

No, Coddiwomple , you're not.

I don't understand why you would assume he'd wet himself either tbh. Does he have a medical condition?

You were in a toy shop. Most likely is another kid bumped into him and spilled their milk on him, or he got bubble liquid down him, or some other benign accident involving being around children where the spillage just happened to occur in his crotch area.

To automatically assume body fluids is a bit strange tbh.

If people report the peado comment as well then HQ are more likely to look quicker. They seem to respond more quickly to reports on individual posts than whole threads....