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I feel sick please tell me I'm being stupid

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maddiegrayson5555 · 28/06/2017 16:57

Namechanged for this long so bear with me .. so today I was shopping with my dd picked up too much stuff so called her grandad (my dad )who lives close by to help me back home we entered a shop to pick DD up a toy and in the store she started creating cos she wanted said toy . there was loads of customers& everything got a bit flustered and her grandad lifted her out the pram and was playing with her on this toy whilst I paid ... as we exited the store I noticed a wet patch on his shorts by his private parts i said to myself he must have wet himself (sorry to be graphic ) but i kept looking all the way down the road and the stain had tried a white sort of colour that's no wee colour
.the wet patch was not there before we went into the store and my head was turned for a few minutes now I'm.panicking could he have done something to my dd in the minute I had my head turned or is there and innocent explanation to this?? I can't calm down and don't know what to do next please help

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Saiman · 28/06/2017 17:34

A family member is going to ask your dad if he is a paedophile?

Really?

HipsterHunter · 28/06/2017 17:34

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Coddiwomple · 28/06/2017 17:34

thanks for the tip WannaBe

I was hoping this thread would disappear before the first comment was even posted...

monkeywithacowface · 28/06/2017 17:35

Have done as you suggest Wannabe

ArchieStar · 28/06/2017 17:35

Urgh. Can't be real.

Redglitter · 28/06/2017 17:35

they are going to ask him

You realise your relationship with your dad could be ruined because of this. He has a mark on his trousers and now a family member is going to ask him if he's a paedophile. Words fail me. Your poor dad

muddlefuck · 28/06/2017 17:36

the fuck

Vanillaisboring666 · 28/06/2017 17:36

Troll

witsender · 28/06/2017 17:37

I reported this crap back at around post 3...has mnhq not looked yet?

Pollydonia · 28/06/2017 17:37

No, just...........no.

Onehellofaride · 28/06/2017 17:37

Your relative is going to ask what exactly?! Confused

If you have got this all wrong your father will never be able to move on from it. Seems a massive leap!

Madbengalmum · 28/06/2017 17:38

Have a biscuit 🍪 OP.

StarryCorpulentCunt · 28/06/2017 17:39

Were any of these sort of things around? Every toy shop in the land sells them and they dry a sort of milky colour if they leak. www.ebay.co.uk/i/141673628917?chn=ps&dispItem=1&adgroupid=41173316342&rlsatarget=pla-327941074024&abcId=1129006&adtype=pla&merchantid=101731492&poi=&googleloc=9044931&device=c&campaignid=861899408&crdt=0

Also as someone else said if he came it would be on the inside not the outside. More likely a spillage of some kind.

maddiegrayson5555 · 28/06/2017 17:39

I'm real person .yes I have anexity issues. yes was abused & yes that may mean my judgement is clouded I came here for help as I'm panicking I'm sorry to upset anyone but I don't know what else to do other than have a strong drink to calm down

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ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 28/06/2017 17:39

Confused really?

EssieTregowan · 28/06/2017 17:40

Sorry UNcle Jim, but cousin Mandy wants to know why there was spunk on your trousers after you held your grand daughter?

Yeah, that conversation will go well.

WannaBe · 28/06/2017 17:40

Can someone enlighten me? What does that Biscuit emoticon actually look like? I mean is it a specific biscuit? My screanreader only says it's a Biscuit

NicolasFlamel · 28/06/2017 17:40

Wave goodbye to your relationship with your dad then. You've had no previous concerns about him whatsoever, he never did anything inappropriate to you but you're assuming he would do this in a toy shop in public. Really?
If this isn't genuine you're a really awful person and if it is you have some deep seated issues to be handling the situation this way.

Bumbumtaloo · 28/06/2017 17:41

I really have no words, I really don't Shock

Wattyyyy · 28/06/2017 17:41

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hippyhippyshake · 28/06/2017 17:41

Abused or not, that's seriously screwed up thinking. Although I am having trouble believing it.

dailymailarecunts · 28/06/2017 17:41

That's a brill tip wannabe about reporting individual posts. Will do that in future too! Amazed they haven't noticed all the reports by now though....

NemosKnickers · 28/06/2017 17:41

OP, has these thoughts about your dad (or others?) come completely out of the blue, or is there some context or trigger for you recently?

VladmirsPoutine · 28/06/2017 17:41

This is all sorts of odd.

EssieTregowan · 28/06/2017 17:41

Jammy Dodger, WannaBe.

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