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To be angry at dp for booking this holiday?

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Imengagedtoanidiot · 26/06/2017 20:42

  • [Message from MNHQ - just noting, this thread was started in July 2017 and has been resurrected FOR NO GOOD REASON Wink - move along now, please there's nothing new to see here...]

So for ages I've been saying I wan to go to Paris I've never been and it's always been somewhere I want to go but money's right ATM.

Anyway I was talking about how much I want to go in front of my mum a few months and turns out she said to dp to book it for us, she'll have the DCs and pay for the trip for my birthday and keep it as a surprise.

I found out this trip was booked last week by accident and was obviously very excited although felt awful that my mum had given dp the money (£500)

I've just had a look at the details and he's booked it leaving on a Saturday afternoon (arriving late Saturday) and returning very early Monday morning. He booked the Monday off work for me and confirmed mum was having the dcs from Friday night and dropping them to childminder Monday (we collect at 6pm)

AIBU to be fuming that he's taken £500 for essentially 1 day?? I've looked and he could have got Friday evening/early Saturday flights and late Monday flight back for the exact same price so it's not a price issue - he said he just 'didn't think'. He's saying I'm so ungrateful and should be thankful for him (he didn't bloody pay for it)

I'm really upset and don't know if I am being ungrateful and a spoilt brat but I'm just pissed off and feel like my dream break and first holiday without dc is a fucking joke.

I've tried changing the flights and even cancelling but the charge is excessive.

OP posts:
10thingsIhateAboutTheDailyMail · 08/02/2018 19:16

Greatthings, why resuscitate a ZOMBIE Shock thread?!

Royalfuckup · 08/02/2018 19:18

WTF? Why would you AS this thread to ressurect it? Confused

SwarmOfCats · 08/02/2018 19:19

You are being ungrateful. You’re being taken away to somewhere you’ve always wanted to go, it’s all been arranged for you, even down to time off work...and you’re angry? Jesus. Your poor husband.

SwarmOfCats · 08/02/2018 19:19

Damn. Zombie thread - didn’t realise! Blush

MagicNumbers1234 · 08/02/2018 19:31

ZOMBIE ZOMBIE ZOMBIE

greenlanes · 08/02/2018 19:34

yes but it would be good to know if OP is OK. This thread resonated lots.

Pumkinfailure · 08/02/2018 19:37

You are getting a lot of stick here OP.
I hear what you are saying, you’ve always wanted to be whisked away to Paris and it feels like the effort you’ve always hoped for just wasn’t there.
He only booked it because your mum told him to and paid for it and then didn’t put any thought into how long you would actually be there for.
It feels thoughtless and didn’t come from him at all. That’s made you feel rubbish.
I’m with you and I’d be upset too.
My DH gave me a ‘voucher’ for a weekend away to somewhere I’d always wanted to go to. We did go a year later because I researched a hotel, booked it, paid for it and arranged childcare. I felt annoyed because the gift had no thought from him, but he felt I was ungrateful.

TheVanguardSix · 08/02/2018 19:44

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AnnieAnoniMouse · 08/02/2018 19:45

MNHQ.

Seriously. Can you PLEASE reinstate the ZOMBIE warning at the TOP of threads.

This is getting utterly bloody ridiculous.

So what if it makes the odd person feel uncomfortable reviving old threads?!

Please! Gin

RadioGaGoo · 08/02/2018 19:46

I like people like you SwarmofCats. I can make the minimal amount of effort with them and enjoy their grovelling gratitude for doing so. Do keep it up!

Sarahjconnor · 08/02/2018 19:58

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supersop60 · 08/02/2018 20:03

Another request for a ZOMBIE thread alert.

SchrodingersFrilledLizard · 08/02/2018 20:04

YABVU.

GlassHalfFullOfWee · 08/02/2018 20:05

Weird, I was thinking about this thread the other day. Wonder what happened in the end...

DawnMumsnet · 08/02/2018 20:54

@supersop60

Another request for a ZOMBIE thread alert.

Duly noted. Smile

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