Would you leave pretty bratty 14 yr old girl alone regularly with decent-looking young male piano teacher with no visible mention of partner?
Evelight · 26/06/2017 16:29
Well would you? Or is my mind screwed up by Nabakov and The Police etc etc during my impressionable years?
Pengggwn · 26/06/2017 16:31
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Evelight · 26/06/2017 16:35
right, so I should have no concerns? I am trying not to assume anything,
(though given the cultural heritage isn't easy!) but I can't help thinking that if I dropped her off at his place and didn't stay and something went wrong, then everybody (my own family first of all) would say, well what did you expect!!
BikeRunSki · 26/06/2017 16:37
I largely went to my music lessons because I had a crush on my young, single teacher. It was utterly unrequited! It made my day when I got to 6th form and I was allowed out of school and I went to get his coffee! (1980s....).
He's nice looking, potentially single young man. This doesn't make him a criminal! Is this private lessons or school lessons? Is he DBS checked? How did you come across him?
Rinoachicken · 26/06/2017 16:38
Well, have you checked his credentials? Is he DBS checked for example? References from other other pupils/parents? Assuming they are all above board then it's reasonable to expect the girl to be safe.
Doesn't mean nothing bad will happen but then she could get run over by a bus so...
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