Would you leave pretty bratty 14 yr old girl alone regularly with decent-looking young male piano teacher with no visible mention of partner?

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Well would you? Or is my mind screwed up by Nabakov and The Police etc etc during my impressionable years?

Get a teenage nanny camera installed secretly, then you can review the lessons and put your mind at rest

It's just you OP.

I've just been to a fantastic talk by Marilyn Hawes from Enough Abuse. She advises extreme caution when employing freelance tutors, music teachers etc. as no DBS type checks are required. She also advises sitting in the lesson at all times.

Were you that 14yo, op ?

a MALE piano teacher?! Good lord lock your daughter away!! Don't let her see male relatives, Dr's or male friends either! Ffs

What growing up in the 90s got to do with any of that? Jean Brodie was written in the 30s and filmed in the 60s and The Police's Don't stand So close to me came out in the early 80s.

Anyway. The only reason I can think you'd need to chaperone is if you thought your DD is likely to embarrass the poor man. As it is, she could be assaulted by anyone of any age regardless of a partner. Or not.

or he might like older women - he could want to tinkle your ivories!!

Can you not just stay for the lesson?

I grew up in the 90s. I have no fucking clue what planet you are on, every single detail in your posts are fucking bonkers.

What does 'bratty' mean to you? And whatever it means, why are you calling your own daughter (presumably) it?

I leave my daughter alone with a lesbian piano teacher - God only knows what they get upto in that half hour but daughter has a whale of a time and is inspired to practice.

A few years ago I comforted a young girl who lost her mum, moments later she turned up and accused me of being a pedo.
Was that this OP?

You are fucking bonkers OP

waaaaaaah this is a proper WTF thread!

Grew up in the 90s prime of miss jean brodie WTAF are you On ....about

Further to my last post.
The shame is now if I see a lone child I just walk on by!

So what exactly is 'bratty' code for OP? Is it possibly less deserving of protection and sympathy than 'feisty' or perhaps 'sassy'?

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I'm not sure I really understand your post op!! Or at least the relevance of the 14 year olds bratty behaviour or the piano teachers looks.
I'd say if you don't feel comfortable leaving a child of any age, level of attractiveness, personality type, etc! Then don't do so, but I wouldn't base it on the things you've mentioned.

My dad does guitar lessons, but will only do so in the parents home and he insists parents are present for under 16's. That's to protect himself though.

PBP????

Think you've been watching too much porn OP.

Your right, it'll be too dangerous.

You need to find a butt-ugly married piano teacher, it's the only way to be completely safe.

You are the teacher op arnt you!

The cultural heritage- just grew up in the nineties, diet of Prime of Ms Jean Brody, Lolita, The Police, that stuff. Nobody else? Just me?

.... what on earth are you talking about? None of the above were even from the 90's, for a start. Weirdest paragraph ever! Yes, just you, I'm afraid.

Even if he was DBS-checked, so what? It only means never been caught yet.

It's a pity - in fact it's grossly unfair - that freelancers are not able to get a DBS check: it would be to their benefit.