AIBU to think DH may be having an affair??

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Asking because I can't get my head round this.... please help!! DH works away a lot, nice hotels etc ... emptying his trousers for washing this evening ( yep I'm living the dream) & found his room paper key for yesterday's hotel stay - no of people on room is 2 confused.... he called me to say hi last night but from the hotel gardens as reception 'awful' in hotel room.... am I being suspicious or is it deserved?? Really want to call hotel as I've kept room key etc but how can I find out how many people stayed etc etc ?? Any ideas ?? sad

And they always ask what email to send it to.

When I stay away with work I always put 2people in room otherwise I find you are given the pokiest room next to the lifts. Some networks are fine in some rooms some not. If you other reason for suspicion it's prob nothing! Next time try to call FaceTime

Ok, I'll phone them tomorrow.... will it invoice no of people etc? Or will double room be standard for 2 people??

Thank you for your help everyone x

Good idea TipTop....

Op, does his company do the bookings for him?
I'm a GM of a chain hotel and a lot of bookings for corporate booking come through the central reservations service as 2 people as standard so the guest isn't assigned a single rooom as some people can't sleep in single beds.
I wouldn't be able to tell you how many people were in the room either, we try to update on arrival that it's only 1 person but it's most likely the key card holder/envelope is pre-printed prior to arrival.

There's no need to wait if you're going to call. Reception will be staffed 24 hours.

Sorry OP, it does sound very suspicious. Especially his "cagey" reaction...

I like that idea....

No he books his own rooms..

And it depends on the hotel if it's shows how many people on the invoice. Mine wouldn't and breakfast is included in the room rate so wouldn't show either.

But if I'm calling from his'work' I can't call now or they won't believe that story?? Plus he's in the room next door....

It's a bit concerning that he said he had bad reception in his room before and you called the hotel to check on their reception? Have I understood that right?

Has he ever cheated before? It seems like you're quite quick to leap to a conclusion and see if his story checks out with hotels etc. It seems that you don't trust him- is there a reason why?

Going to Google hotel and room rate

I'd phone the hotel pretending to be the woman(if there is one), thank them for the lovely stay and ask to book another room under the same names.
Then get them to confirm the names back to you?

Anyone know if that would that work?

If it's a branded hotel I may be able to help some more OP, I've worked for Premier Inn and IHG. Feel free to PM me the name.

Scrap my idea, tiptoe has a better one!

Oh dear OP, it doesn't sound great - not necessarily just about the room, but his reaction and the fact he's so protective with his phone!

Room rate is more expensive for two adults.... just googled

I sometimes stay in hotels for work and always get a double room which says 2 on the invoice, even though its just me. Phoning from outside means nothing. He could phone you from the room even if someone else was there, as long as they kept quiet.

Ask to look at his phone. Tell him that the hotel card has upset you and you need reassurance. If he won't let you then you know he has something to hide.

I've never been given a paper key, but many times I've been handed multiple keycards as standard, even though it's just me.

I think it's just default. There aren't many single rooms in hotels, are there?

Oh op.

I could be your DH as my room is assigned for 2 and it's just me and the signal in my room is impossible. I can only get it if I stick my head out of the window :-/

Has he given you any reason to doubt him?

OP be prepared that they won't give you the invoice, having worked in hotels for years I know that if you book through a third party, i.e. hotels.com, you will be referred to them for an invoice, as the hotel will have charged hotels.com a lower rate plus commission, which totals the amount your DH will have paid. Hope that makes sense?