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To think 7.30 is late enough?

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EssieTregowan · 15/06/2017 07:47

It's all kicking off in my street. Shock

There's a terrace of five houses, all families with kids of varying ages, and a small block of flats next to it which is mainly couples. The rest of the estate is detached houses.

All the terrace kids play out the front. And now the evenings are lighter lots of them don't come in until 9pm or later. And they are LOUD. Bikes, water pistols, balls, shrieking etc.

One of the mums has complained on our estate FB page and asked nicely that the kids are brought in at 7.30 as she is struggling with hers at bedtime when they can hear the others playing out. The flats residents are backing her up and the other mums are getting shirty and defensive. Insults are flying.

I'm staying out of it (I live down the other end and although I can hear them it doesn't disturb my kids) but I think that actually she's quite right and it's really antisocial.

The loud kids mum's are now saying if it's a problem they should complain to the HA. It's now come to light that they all had a letter last summer from the HA saying that if it didn't improve they'd enforce a curfew.

I'm sort of watching from the sidelines with my jaw open. My kids don't play out as we have a big garden, but I get them indoors by 7.30 if they are being loud as our neighbours at the back have younger children.

It's just common courtesy, isn't it? I'm a bit surprised tbh as they're usually all very neighbourly.

Anyway, what do you all think? How late is too late to be out playing loudly on a school night?

OP posts:
PersianCatLady · 17/06/2017 10:47

sadly it is a cul de sac with often screaming, yelping, whooping kids - one family more than the others
I think that every cul-de-sac has one family that make more noise than everybody else and they always seem to be the family that doesn't care about their impact on other people either.

PrimalLass · 17/06/2017 11:40

I'm really surprised at the amount of people that think that 7:30 is early for kids to be in at the moment!

I'm really surprised at the amount of people who think that their situation applies to others.

My DD is 9. I tend to go and look for her by 9pm and make her come home from the park. On a school night. If she sleeps 10-7.30 then that's plenty for her.

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