To be upset about a lads holiday photo?
nostringstoholdmedown · 08/06/2017 18:58
My dp has gone on a lads holiday (4 of them.) He has Snapchat (yes he's too old for it.)
He's put a photo of a pint on ... opposite that pint in the corner of the photo is a pair of boobs in a bikini. She's clearly sat opposite him at the same table at the hotel.
I just feel a bit sick ... like he's obviously allowed to talk to women but to be sat drinking together makes me uncomfortable.
I've not said anything as I might be being completely unreasonable.
MrsTerryPratchett · 08/06/2017 19:02
This happened once with my DH, well similar. He asked me to go away with him and a group of friends to a chalet. I said yes. Then he found out it was only the blokes and was told I couldn't come. Fair enough. But when he got home he said that some of them had invited a group of women they met back to the chalet. So, wives and girlfriends not welcome but random women they met; fine.
DH thought it was stupid and didn't go with them again.
It's not the talking to people per se. It's that women aren't welcome on these holidays except when they are strangers.
SomeOtherFuckers · 08/06/2017 19:12
Probably one of his single friends is chatting her up and DP is just with them ... if they're in a hot place or on the beach then they're probably all wearing swimwear and this woman shouldn't be penalised because she has boobs.
I do understand the worry though - but just ask him
isntitapip · 08/06/2017 19:15
Group of lads on holiday are going to attract groups of women. Especially if some are single. What did you expect would happen? You either trust him or you don't.
Sorry, that sounds harsher than I want it to but I've had a glass of wine and don't know how else to word it
unfortunateevents · 08/06/2017 19:30
Maybe she is sitting there talking to them, maybe she is part of some entirely different party? Maybe he put the pint down on the table (or the bar counter?) in order to take the photo and this woman happens to appear in the photo? Is your husband not allowed to talk to women on holiday - or only allowed to talk to ones who are fully clothed? If you are going to feel upset over something like this, do you not trust him?
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