When you find out that your husband has some really disgusting habits

[Gaaaah]

Firstly, not a poo troll.

I never realised how fucking disgusting he is until I happened to walk into the bathroom one day when he was having a shower and in the bottom of the shower tray was a massive lump of shit that he quickly stood on and pretended wasn't there. I was visibly horrified but apologised for going in and backed out sharpish.

I put it out of my mind. I don't even know why. I should have confronted him right there and then but I didn't. I haven't encountered anything like that again. More often than not he'll actually call me in to chat about something to do with his day that he feels won't wait until after he's showered.

He had a shower today after work. He forgot to flush the loo. So when I've gone to use it later, I can see that there's no toilet paper down there. He hasn't wiped his arse after a shit. Then he's got straight into the shower. My shower. That I scrub on my hands and knees.

It's disgusting, I know. Worse than poo crumbs man. And i feel absolutely ashamed and repulsed by him.

Gaaaah! Have you confronted DH?

Haven't RTFT as my stomach heaved reading the OP's post. Not funny at all, I would be disgusted at any human being who did this let alone the person I live with. I would have to talk to him, make it clear how vile it is and ask that he use both the toilet and shower for their correct purpose in future.

Tell him to think about the difference between a toilet with full flushing power, and a shower drain where water (and any 'floaty' matter) rests just centimetres beneath the metal grating... Remind him that shower pipes aren't to cope with solids nor the fatty bits of poo which could build up a sticky coating, collect hair and other matter and cause blockages. Does he want to pay the plumbing bill when the shower recess backs up and overflows with old bathwater and his sewerage?

Blimey.

Waffle stomping.

LTB