Fuck sake. Consent isn't the issue here. The op was asking what you would think of your oh said this, and people have said that would find them grotesque and no longer a man.
You can use whatever reason you want to remove consent before or during a relationship.
Shall I say that 100000000 more times.
The fact that people are being asked to explain their views is because this is the actual topic of the tread.
Relax, the PEECEE brigade of "cool mums" are not going to begin assigning grotesque bisexual people to your daughters unless they can come up with a pc enough reason to decline them sex.
I honesty cannot understand how much logic has been bent and stretched in this thread.
To summaries. Your vagina belongs to you. No, it is not an equal opportunities zone, yes, we all generally make discriminations.
If you are basing your (absolute right to) discrimination on the basis of a homosexual encounter which you consider makes a man "less manly" or grotesque, that descrimintation is homophobic and sexists. But you're allowed to have it.