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To think it's absolutely fucking vile

210 replies

WetsTheFinger · 19/05/2017 15:03

To suck the snot out of your child's nose and swallow it. Or spit it, for that matter. I just heaved watching a woman do this to her snotty toddler this afternoon at soft play. Hmm

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kali110 · 20/05/2017 01:40

In the street, nightclubs, parties, festivsls. You never snogged someone you just met, had ONSs?
No ive never had a ons, why is that so unusual Confused

TheStoic · 20/05/2017 01:45

I'm just wondering where they live to see folks 'commonly' french kissing virtual strangers!

Are people really this sheltered? It sounds like some of you haven't been out of your front yard.

sebashocked · 20/05/2017 06:36

I'm genuinely shocked that so many people think it's weird and disgusting and that it sounds like I'm in a tiny snot-sucking minority. Just seems the easiest, fastest and most instinctive way to help out a distressed snotty child.

charlestonchaplin · 20/05/2017 07:24

Frankly, I think most of you posters are pathetic if you would happily watch your child, who has in most cases come out of your body, struggle to breathe because you think this practice is disgusting. You are even more pathetic because you are casting judgement on someone else for putting their child's comfort over their own. No-one is asking you to get involved.

The 'disgusting' bit (which no-one does because they love it, they do it for the sake of their child) is getting the snot in your mouth. Swallowing doesn't add an extra level of disgustingness because anyone with basic secondary school science knows how hydrochloride acid kills most pathogens. And respiratory pathogens don't infect via the intestine. I wouldn't swallow but if someone else does it doesn't affect me and isn't objectively a bad or offensive thing.

Interesting the difference between what women will do for men and what women will do for their children. How many of you women refuse to give oral sex and confidently and publicly call it a disgusting practice? I can't believe most are unable to see the parallels with oral sex.

And it is certainly true that people in the UK engage more quickly in intimate behaviour, including kissing and sex, than in some other parts of the world. The idea that people here are far more discriminating about the things they put in their mouths is, quite honestly, ridiculous.

Penhacked · 20/05/2017 07:31

Wish I could unread this. There are gadgets to do this hygienically totally fine to study the any in a transparent tube

kkkkaty123 · 20/05/2017 07:31

Oh my, wish I could unread that.

Mumoftheark · 20/05/2017 07:37

It completely freaks me out. It's really common in Caribbean families. I personally couldn't do it. Boots however sell things that do it for you so absolutely no need. Nuke do a fab one that really helps them

ILikeyourHairyHands · 20/05/2017 07:37

I did this with mine when they were tiny, and just swallowed it, they were growing inside me a few weeks before, it seems a bit cruel not to deal with bodily emissions they couldn't do anything about themselves.

Wouldn't do it to a toddler though, they can have a tissue.

charlestonchaplin · 20/05/2017 07:45

Hope you all remember to carry your snot-sucking gadgets each time you leave the house. And if you forget the child can just lump it.

BabyLlama · 20/05/2017 07:48

My DM did this to me when I was a baby and couldn't breathe, but she obviously didn't swallow it! That's rank! 🤢

GahBuggerit · 20/05/2017 07:57

Some of these posts............I'm embarassed for you.

MrsRaymondReddington · 20/05/2017 08:12

I use a snot sucker, so it doesn't actually go in my mouth, but I don't think I'd be too bothered if it did. I find other people's snot completely repellent though...but nothing about DD is repellent. I ate her poo by accident one day, that was a bit gross 😂😂

BraCrumble · 20/05/2017 08:15

Just reading about it made me feel sick!

I think there's a bit in Angela's Ashes where someone does this, but it's because the kid is choking or something.

Only1scoop · 20/05/2017 08:21

Op didn't mention the toddler at soft play was 'struggling to breathe' thoughConfused

FunkinEll · 20/05/2017 08:22

I'm not easily shocked/ disgusted but OMG. That is rank!

CrystalMethHog · 20/05/2017 08:30

Haven't RTFL but you are most certainly BU to give me that imagery at this time of the day. Ewwww.

EnjoyYourShitCake · 20/05/2017 09:26

I did it when DD was about 10 weeks old and had a terrible cold. Didn't swallow the snot, but I would have had I not had a tissue to hand.

She's 2 now and can blow her nose. I would snot suck for her now if I had to though. She's my child for goodness sake.

ClopySow · 20/05/2017 09:30

Jesus. I'm sitting here retching.

SemiNormal · 20/05/2017 09:35

I couldn't do it. I really couldn't. Well done to those who could though, I'm actually in awe of you (so long as you please don't do it in front of me) Grin

My son has been sick in my mouth and my eye though, which is gross, but to me it's preferable. I think it's the consistency of snot that does it for me. I also can't be dealing with people noisily blowing their nose next to me - ESPECIALLY in a restaurant!

WetsTheFinger · 20/05/2017 13:10

The kid wasn't struggling to breathe I wouldn't say, he just had a cold and a lot of thick green snot... Ugh, I just retched again.

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Morphene · 22/05/2017 12:56

I wonder if the people with the massive snot issues, had parents that constantly berated them for having a snotty nose when they were kids. It usually takes years of training to build up that kind of an aversion.....

BeyondThePage · 22/05/2017 15:44

Does nobody on here ever sniff? That is snot, going down the back of your throat into your stomach.

KoalaDownUnder · 22/05/2017 15:46

Yeah..,your own snot. Not someone else's.

Only1scoop · 22/05/2017 15:51

Quite

Crowdblundering · 22/05/2017 16:45

Used to see the Maoris do it a lot in NZ.

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