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To think it's absolutely fucking vile

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WetsTheFinger · 19/05/2017 15:03

To suck the snot out of your child's nose and swallow it. Or spit it, for that matter. I just heaved watching a woman do this to her snotty toddler this afternoon at soft play. Hmm

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Whereisthecake · 19/05/2017 15:57

I feel fucking sick. Surely there's other ways to get baby snot out?
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shinyredbus · 19/05/2017 15:58

I thought this was absolutely gross until i spoke to a friend of mine who said her partner did it - i said that it was so gross and she said they were out with her newborn, didn't have a aspirator, and her newborn was struggling to breathe (i guess the newborn didn't know how to open her mouth?) and then she asked me what i would have done in her position. Didn't say much about it after to be fair - i guess it does depend on the situation!

WanderingTrolley1 · 19/05/2017 15:58

Blimey. A bit of baby snot and people turn all pathetic.

PigletWasPoohsFriend · 19/05/2017 16:00

I couldn't do it personally....

ballerinabelle · 19/05/2017 16:04

It's grim but if my baby was really struggling to breathe I'd do anything to help them

Fennecfoxmummy · 19/05/2017 16:05

I first heard about this when I read an article about adele the singer doing it for her baby. I just think if it eases your congested baby why would you want to leave them struggling to breathe comfortably.

ExConstance · 19/05/2017 16:05

Eating snot is actually good for you - see this recent article in the independent here she should however be insisting the child eats its own snot.

CiliatedEpithelium · 19/05/2017 16:10

I have sucked the amniotic fluid from puppies and lambs in the line of duty but I have gobbed it out immediately. This has made me actually want to hurl though and I'm as hard as fecking nails despite not being Scottish. Fuck sake!

BillyButtfuck · 19/05/2017 16:13
Envy
WanderingTrolley1 · 19/05/2017 16:13

Thank you, ExC!

user1487064897 · 19/05/2017 16:14

My family is from the Caribbean and it's something they have always done, in fact my brother had to do it to his dd the other night.
You can use a cloth though as long as air can get through it so it's not as gross.

walmo · 19/05/2017 16:16

If it was a life or death situation I don't believe that anyone would refuse to do it.

TheFabledSnake · 19/05/2017 16:17

My DP does this, he's Zimbabwean and said it's pretty common there. Does spit it out though.

I wouldn't do it, I use nasal spray and nose bulb!

BuckinghamLass · 19/05/2017 16:21

Needing a warning in the title?! Come on now.

I can't get too worked up about this, wouldn't do it myself but I doubt I'd be heaving or vomiting!

WomblingThree · 19/05/2017 16:33

I don't particularly have an issue with the snot sucking per se, I just think it's odd to gleefully post about something that made you heave, knowing it will upset other people.

skippy67 · 19/05/2017 16:37

My mum's Jamaican and told me she used to do this for me and my brother when we were babies. No biggie.

skippy67 · 19/05/2017 16:40

She didn't swallow it though!

WizardOfToss · 19/05/2017 16:41

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BuckinghamLass · 19/05/2017 16:42

Or, it could be cultural difference

Perhaps that IS the cultural difference - that we're so precious and delicate!

upperlimit · 19/05/2017 16:45

Yeah, I did this with my babies when they had colds before a feed when the saline spray ran out/ went walkabout. I spat it out though - Grin

OyWithThePoodles · 19/05/2017 16:47

A doctor told me to do this when DD was a baby and had the most awful streaming cold. I did it a few times, but it seemed to distress her even more and of course the crying made her even MORE snotty so I had an 'excuse' not to keep it up! I'm showing her this thread - shes always insisted no one would do this in a million years and I'm making it up. Grin

NavyandWhite · 19/05/2017 16:48

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Gileswithachainsaw · 19/05/2017 16:49

Oh god that's gross

AlbusPercival · 19/05/2017 16:50

It's grim, but I've done it when DS has struggled to breathe and snot sucker not to be found.

Have immediately spat and brushed my teeth though!

BuckinghamLass · 19/05/2017 16:57

I used to inject saline up their little nostrils - not the spray, a big squirt of warm solution. A river of snot would come out of the other nostril, it was so satisfying.

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