Is no oral sex a deal breaker?

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Just having a conversation with a friend about a guy she is with that point blank refuses to go down on women.
He doesn't 'expect' blowjobs but does enjoy them.
He says he doesn't give oral because he wouldn't like the texture and because she has asked so many times why he doesn't and that it offends her he now says there is 'pressure' on the situation which means he probably will never do it.
I think this would be a deal breaker for me? Is this normal?
I don't think I've ever known someone to completely refuse....

Sorry Anon, I still don't know what it is.

anon I don't know which porn you're watching to see bristly discharged clits 😭

What is "bristly discharged clit"? With... Bristles? :=0

A bristly discharged clit that is ^

anon, your plaintive cries about love and romance mixed with detailed porn scenarios about anal
and licking the neighbour's balls are making me laugh quite a lot. It reminds me of that time Mary Whitehouse had a fugue-type event during an interview and kept talking about masturbation.

Shatners no I'm pleased to inform you that everything is perfect in that department

Raven?

I don't get that one. So, was the clit discharged in a "bristly" way? I don't think my English is good enough to understand this...

Do people have electric toothbrush heads down there? I never knew.

Jaques no porn I would have chosen to watch put it that way

I am still waiting for some kind person to bring naive little me up to speed on what a bristly discharged clit is?

I don't like receiving it personally, but if during the first couple of dates a man told me it would never happen even though he's never tried it - I don't think I'd like to be with someone so closed minded :/

@cricket.

Glad it's not just me LOL.

Blimey this thread is moving fast!

Raven an unwaxed vagina with spiky hairs in awkward places.

ravenblack

I've just googled it. Doesn't seem to be "a thing". Just a lot of info about vaginal discharge....

I have even googled it and come up with nothing that helps.

From someone who's over excited down there or is discharged from ovulation ( sorry to be so graphic)

Raven, I think it may be a description thought up by someone who has never seen nor touched a woman's genitals.

Anon

So... Just don't wax at all? No spickes/bristles/stubbles. Just hair

anon and yet you still watched it, how odd.

I find your juxtaposition of hyperbole surrounding love and sex rather at odds with your alleged porn viewing habits

Nobody has spiky hairs on their clitoris. Ow.

Crikey anon lubrication from arousal isn't "discharge". It's a perfectly normal - and bloody wonderful - female trait

an unwaxed vagina with spiky hairs in awkward places.

Thanks ANON.

Mine ain't like that though

Cricket I have a Hollywood down there, I wouldn't expect a man to be subjected to a hairy 70s muff, at least trim for god sake.

Does anyone actually have hair on her clit? I haven't seen many, but can't recall any that had hair on them.

It might mean when the doctor briskly discharges you with a prescription for a pessary.

(Nods knowingly)