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Neighbour constantly walking through my front garden.

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Light69 · 16/05/2017 06:41

I am not sure if my dh was being unreasonable for shouting at him this morning so here it goes. Not 100% sure if it is my neighbours eldest son or there daughters boy friend. He sleeps there most nights but doesn't appear to have house keys, I know this because he sits in his car at the bottom of my drive waiting to be let in. So he went through a stage of what ever side of the drive I parked in he would park directly behind me across the bottom of the drive blocking me in. This made it difficult to get off the drive as I was blocked in and had to kind of edge backwards and forwards to move the car to the otherside of the drive to reserve off it safely. We have a dropped kerb that runs the whole width of the drive but this didn't seem to bother him. I started reversing on to make it easier to pull off and out of the blue he stopped doing it. He has now moved on walking through our front garden to get to and from this car. So he comes out of their house steps over a small wall and walks right over my front door step and behind my car. He will push my kitchen windows in if they are open wide so he can fit behind the car easier then trotts off down the drive. On occasion if we have been leaving at the same time he has bumped into my dc or I have had to step back to stop him walking into me, I have asked him to stop but he doesn't. So this morning when dh was leaving for work he did it again and dh lost his temper and shouted at him and swore a bit, was dh in the wrong for this and how would you deal with the situation?

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ohfourfoxache · 29/05/2017 19:47

Op I hope all goes well on Wednesday, I and I'm sure many, many others will be thinking of you Thanks

Might I suggest a change of name to cuntboy? What a nasty little scrote Angry

bloodyuselessme · 29/05/2017 19:56

So sorry to hear about what's happened and good luck with everything

hollyisalovelyname · 29/05/2017 21:05
Flowers Best of luck OP.
SauvignonBlanche · 29/05/2017 21:36

Good luck OP Flowers

emmyhNL · 29/05/2017 21:40

Thinking of you OP. I've been following this thread with interest and hope that it all goes well

Wishiwasonholiday1 · 29/05/2017 22:05

OP I hope you're feeling ok and that all goes well.

I had two tiny babies via planned c sections (ds- 5, dd-7months) and both are very big and healthy now!

Get lots of rest xxx

justkeepswimmingg · 29/05/2017 22:20

Oh OP, sending love to you and family. My DS was born at 32 weeks, and is now a thriving 2 year old. Be assured you are receiving the best care, and baby will be absolutely fine. Don't worry about twat boy, and what happened, concentrate on that beautiful baby Flowers

timeforheroes · 29/05/2017 22:47

Good luck for Wednesday OP. Flowers

DTwins were 35 weeks and both the lower end of the 4lb mark, now they are nearly 2, and within the 50th and 75th percentiles.

Willow2017 · 29/05/2017 23:34

Thanks for the update.

All good wishes for Wed for you and your baby. I am sure everything will be fine if Drs are happy for you to have a section then.

Twatboy is hopefully getting whats due to him in spades. Some people are so full of their own importance they are beyond ignorant. I really hope Army Dad was there too to see him get his come-uppance Smile

Flowers looking forward to your next update on the birth of your beautiful baby.

TheMaddHugger · 30/05/2017 02:34

((((((((Hugs)))))))))) Folks.

I have been sending the OP your messages

NightWanderer · 30/05/2017 02:40

Hope you and the baby are doing ok. Sounds like twat boy really earned his nickname.

UnicornSparkles1 · 30/05/2017 02:51

Sending vibes to you and the baby and hope all is okay at home Flowers

seven201 · 30/05/2017 07:11

This thread is a roller coaster of emotions! Best wishes for Wednesday op xx

WelshMoth · 30/05/2017 08:09

Bless you OP. Forget about everything for now. We are all rooting for you and baby 💐

paddypants13 · 30/05/2017 08:31

Look after yourself op and don't give twat boy another thought.

Flowers for you.

CoraPirbright · 30/05/2017 08:31

All the very best to you, your dh, your fab dad and, of course, your lovely baby who you are due to meet soon! I am sure that it will all go well, you will be looked after beautifully and home soon (with no more aggro as the police are now involved). Flowers

flumpybear · 30/05/2017 09:14

Goodness what a crazy situation!! But concentrate on your baby now - tell your dad you may worry more if you don't know what's happened HmmWink

Roomba · 30/05/2017 13:06

OP - my DS was born at 35 weeks. I had a growth scan the day before he arrived which predicted he'd be 4lb. He was 5lb exactly at birth, so the scan was 25% out. They are a best guess, so don't get stressed out worrying. DS was absolutely fine, just very scrawny. It's good you've had the steroids - I wasn't given them as it was policy to only give them if you were less than 34 weeks in my hospital.

Good luck for tomorrow, try and get as much rest as you can today and tonight and definitely don't worry about twatboy (your DH, Dad and the police can deal with him)!

user1483387154 · 30/05/2017 13:26

Im sure everything will be fine and tomorrow will go well. 35 weeks is a very safe stage for birth especially as you have been given the steroid injections.

Im current in hospital too (4 weeks out of the last 6) with my baby trying to make an early appearance. The drs are trying to hold off till 35 weeks and then are more than confident to let the birth go ahead, so I completely understand what you are going through

Glad the police have now been involved with your other situation.

timeforheroes · 31/05/2017 07:13

Thinking of you and your little one, OP. Hope you're enjoying cuddles very soon. Smile

ophiotaurus · 31/05/2017 08:07

Thinking of you today OP Flowers

ohfourfoxache · 31/05/2017 08:41

Hope all goes well today Thanks

dentydown · 31/05/2017 08:51

Hoping everything goes well.

WelshMoth · 31/05/2017 09:29

Best wishes today Flowers

ItsNachoCheese · 31/05/2017 09:30

Thinking of you today

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