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Neighbour constantly walking through my front garden.

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Light69 · 16/05/2017 06:41

I am not sure if my dh was being unreasonable for shouting at him this morning so here it goes. Not 100% sure if it is my neighbours eldest son or there daughters boy friend. He sleeps there most nights but doesn't appear to have house keys, I know this because he sits in his car at the bottom of my drive waiting to be let in. So he went through a stage of what ever side of the drive I parked in he would park directly behind me across the bottom of the drive blocking me in. This made it difficult to get off the drive as I was blocked in and had to kind of edge backwards and forwards to move the car to the otherside of the drive to reserve off it safely. We have a dropped kerb that runs the whole width of the drive but this didn't seem to bother him. I started reversing on to make it easier to pull off and out of the blue he stopped doing it. He has now moved on walking through our front garden to get to and from this car. So he comes out of their house steps over a small wall and walks right over my front door step and behind my car. He will push my kitchen windows in if they are open wide so he can fit behind the car easier then trotts off down the drive. On occasion if we have been leaving at the same time he has bumped into my dc or I have had to step back to stop him walking into me, I have asked him to stop but he doesn't. So this morning when dh was leaving for work he did it again and dh lost his temper and shouted at him and swore a bit, was dh in the wrong for this and how would you deal with the situation?

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WelshMoth · 10/06/2017 11:16

How are you and the baby OP?

littlemissneela · 10/06/2017 11:59

A later comer to this thread, and what a rollercoaster its been!

Firstly Many Congratulations on the safe arrival of your little girl. My youngest was born at 31 weeks weighing only 3lb 10 1/2 oz, and she will be 18 this year. They managed to give me both the lung maturing injections before she arrived, which I am sure helped loads. Rest as much as you can and just enjoy her Flowers

Secondly, a huge Star to your dad. What an amazing man. I am sad things haven't settled as hoped, and I hope all is ok at home now.

DancingOnMyOwn · 10/06/2017 13:50

Wow what a thread! I was going to comment about the twatboy neighbour but will forget that now

Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful baby, I hope you are both ok Flowers

Mumofazoo · 10/06/2017 13:56

Congratulations on the birth of your little girl op SmileBearFlowers

DartmoorDoughnut · 14/06/2017 21:58

Hope you're all doing ok light

bluediamonds · 15/06/2017 05:29

Just popped over from the Nuisance Nanny Thread!

Congratulations on your new baby girl. Flowers
Hope your parking issues are resolved now.
You're Dad is an absolute hero. Bless him.

bluediamonds · 15/06/2017 05:29

Your not you're! Grin

EmMcK · 15/06/2017 05:41

He shuts your windows to make his path easier??? He is a cheeky little weasel. i am all for the motion sensor sprinkler.

SexLubeAndAFishSlice · 15/06/2017 07:32

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EmMcK · 15/06/2017 09:48

Oh my god OP, this thread has made me respond too soon with indignation (see post two above), cheer with joy at the righteous wonderfulness of your father (happy to be chair of the Southern Hemisphere fan club) and then get all sooky and happy at the news of your daughter's arrival. I hope all is going well xx

TruckersWife · 15/06/2017 11:38

Wow....only just caught up on this as have been lurking.....congrats on the safe arrival of your baby girl! Hope you are both home soon.

Also loving your Dad!

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Goingtobeawesome · 15/06/2017 13:38

Congratulations on the birth of your baby girl. Wonderful news.

TheweewitchRoz · 16/06/2017 21:14

Hope you're all home safe & sound Op.

WhatchaMaCalllit · 16/06/2017 22:18

Hope things are much better now Light and that you're back home now.

SocksBoatsAndQats · 23/06/2017 12:36

Hope all is OK now Light.

Holdbacktheriver · 23/06/2017 13:04

Just caught up on this.
Congratulations op hope you and baby are doing well now

KimmySchmidt1 · 23/06/2017 14:36

Teenage boys are often in a little world of their own, rebelling in their own lunchtimes and feeling sorry for the themselves about the cruel cruel world. They don't mean to be a-holes quite often they are just hopeless at thinking about the world outside their own brain. They also like to test grown ups to see if they bumble about being middle aged and boring instead of an amazing kerrazzzy rebel like teenage boys are. A grown man swearing at him will likely have jolted him back to reality.

DownUdderer · 24/06/2017 07:35

Congrats on the birth of your daughter xx

caringdenise009 · 24/06/2017 09:20

I have a neighbour,who calls the clampers every time someone parks over her dropped driveway,even slightly. Even if it's late at night and she's not going anywhere. She goes out and screams obscenities at the owner of the car if they come before the removal lorry. Only trouble with her approach is that the person whose car was removed then knows where she lives. The day after I last heard her screaming fucking cunt at someone, her car was blocked in by bags of cement ,one window and a wing were ruined. She hasn't moved her car since, it's been months and it's still sitting smashed up.

OP and her family were very reasonable with this idiot. I hope they are enjoying their lovely new baby.

TheMaddHugger · 27/06/2017 16:41

Hi Folks Have an Update from OP

Light69To:TheMaddHuggerSubject:Re: (((Hugs))))))Date:Tue 27-Jun-17 16:29:29
Yes we are all do well thank you. Sorry for taking ages to reply really busy at the moment with hospital trips. Hoping dd2 will be home by the end of next week so excited I could burst. It happens to be right around her due date.

justkeepswimmingg · 27/06/2017 16:55

Glad to hear you're doing well OP!
I remember the feeling of bringing my premature, special care, baby home for the first time. It's amazing, enjoy every moment as I'm sure you will Smile

littlemissneela · 27/06/2017 17:00

Lovely to read the update about mum & baby. Here's to getting home soon!

quizqueen · 30/06/2017 13:04

Put a fence up on top of the dividing wall so it is too high for him to step over and speak to your neighbour and ask them to stop their guests parking across your drive blocking your access. If the lad continues to do so, then knock the door every time he is there in the middle of the night, and say you need to leave now so he will have to move his car, until he gets the message! His behaviour is very rude.

Redsippycup · 30/06/2017 19:40

Ummm quizqueen in 30 pages the thread has moved on a tad...

In fact it has moved on so much that OP has had a baby!

It is worth reading though, just for Army Dad, never mind the escalating twattery from twatboy.

Grainfail · 30/06/2017 21:09

Congrats OP - hope everything is going well with your LO.

Not to sound like a completely superficial person, did we ever find out what happened with Army Dad and the neighbour? Wasn't there some incident they were keeping from OP as she was in hospital and (naturally) had her mind on other things?

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