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Neighbour constantly walking through my front garden.

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Light69 · 16/05/2017 06:41

I am not sure if my dh was being unreasonable for shouting at him this morning so here it goes. Not 100% sure if it is my neighbours eldest son or there daughters boy friend. He sleeps there most nights but doesn't appear to have house keys, I know this because he sits in his car at the bottom of my drive waiting to be let in. So he went through a stage of what ever side of the drive I parked in he would park directly behind me across the bottom of the drive blocking me in. This made it difficult to get off the drive as I was blocked in and had to kind of edge backwards and forwards to move the car to the otherside of the drive to reserve off it safely. We have a dropped kerb that runs the whole width of the drive but this didn't seem to bother him. I started reversing on to make it easier to pull off and out of the blue he stopped doing it. He has now moved on walking through our front garden to get to and from this car. So he comes out of their house steps over a small wall and walks right over my front door step and behind my car. He will push my kitchen windows in if they are open wide so he can fit behind the car easier then trotts off down the drive. On occasion if we have been leaving at the same time he has bumped into my dc or I have had to step back to stop him walking into me, I have asked him to stop but he doesn't. So this morning when dh was leaving for work he did it again and dh lost his temper and shouted at him and swore a bit, was dh in the wrong for this and how would you deal with the situation?

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Lynnm63 · 28/05/2017 15:53

Just found this thread. I'm loving Army Dad too. Hope you and the baby are ok OP.

picklemepopcorn · 29/05/2017 08:00

Hope you have your feet up, and are having a good rest.

OnTheRise · 29/05/2017 08:47

Much love from here for Army Dad.

I hope you're ok, OP.

scootinFun · 29/05/2017 09:56

Hope you're ok Op

FairyAnn · 29/05/2017 10:01

An amazing thread! Army Dad is the best!

Hope you and the baby are doing well OP

TheMaddHugger · 29/05/2017 13:24

UPDATE FROM OP

Light69To:TheMaddHuggerSubject:Re: (((Hugs))))))Date:Mon 29-May-17 13:15:22
Thank you, I am back in hospital unfortunately. I am 35 weeks Wednesday I have been given steroid injection to help babies lung development and she is scheduled for delivery by c-section Wednesday morning, unless an emergency happens before then. From the growth scan this morning she will weigh just over 4lb. I am still not 100% sure on what went on but got some details from my youngest dd and it involved the police as Twat boy swang for dh. I think everyone is more concerned about the baby arriving safe and well but come Wednesday I should know the full story! Feel free to update the thread my 4G signal is rubbish in here, just nipped to sit outside as it is so bloody hot in here.

kali110 · 29/05/2017 13:28

Hope all goes well op Flowers

PyongyangKipperbang · 29/05/2017 13:32

I did wonder if the little charmer had decided to up the ante. Still, no chance of it being minimised now that the police have been involved.

Thinking of you and hope it goes well in Wednesday. Flowers

Good luck :)

Fragglez · 29/05/2017 14:00

Oh hell OP, I'm sorry, he really is a fuckwit isn't he Sad

Hope you and baby are doing well and best of luck for wednesday Flowers

Fragglez · 29/05/2017 14:01

Whoops - pressed too soon! Wanted to say thanks to Hugger i was worried the little shit had done something to make OP ill

FrancisCrawford · 29/05/2017 14:08

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Figgygal · 29/05/2017 14:19

Sorry to hear your update op
Good luck Wednesday

picklemepopcorn · 29/05/2017 14:34

Thank you Hugger! Please send OP our best wishes for her and the LO.

PurplePidjin · 29/05/2017 14:37

Keep that baby safe, lovely x

Lynnm63 · 29/05/2017 14:42

Thank you maddhugger for the update. OP my twins were born at 30 weeks both babies weighed less than yours put together. They're both fine. You're in the best place, please take care of yourself and good luck for Weds. Your baby will almost certainly go to SCBU and will appear huge compared to the preemies! Don't worry about updating us regarding Twatboy but please look after yourself and the baby Flowers

bailz · 29/05/2017 14:49

Hugs OP!

My son was born at 34 weeks and is now in the 70th percentile at 5 months old. Doing really well and strong.
We popped back into the hospital today to donate his tiny baby things :) just remember you're both in the right place!

GiraffesCantPlayHopScotch · 29/05/2017 15:00

Thanks for the update.

Hope all goes well

madcapcat · 29/05/2017 15:02

Another one thinking of you for Wednesday. All best wishes.

BuggerOffAndGoodDayToYou · 29/05/2017 15:04

Thinking of you 💐

suzydiamond · 29/05/2017 15:06

Somebody in one of the earlier posts was adamant that this wasn't a case of harassment. They were wrong. This is a classic case of harassment within the meaning of the Protection from Harassment Act 1997.

I can say for certain that the local community Police in my area would have taken this seriously and would have gone round and had a word with the guy, and possibly served a Police Information Notice (aka Harassment Warning) on him advising him that if he continues then he could be liable to arrest and prosecution.

I had a feeling at the time that twatboy's conduct was only going to get worse. He clearly has issues.

OP, I hope that everything goes ell for you and your family, especially the new baby. Hope your DH is OK as well.

ItsNachoCheese · 29/05/2017 15:12

Big 😡 to twatboy you are a massive 💩 and sending lots of 🍰 and Flowers to you light69

TheweewitchRoz · 29/05/2017 15:17

Hugs Op & all the best for Wednesday Flowers

redshoeblueshoe · 29/05/2017 15:44

Flowers and for your dad Star

PurpleDragon76 · 29/05/2017 16:20

Thanks for update, I hope a large truck rolls over twatboy's car.

Wishing you and baby all the best and sending you positive vibes Flowers

AnathemaPulsifer · 29/05/2017 16:47

Oh wow, what a twat he is. I hope all stays quiet, and all is well on Wednesday.

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