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Neighbour constantly walking through my front garden.

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Light69 · 16/05/2017 06:41

I am not sure if my dh was being unreasonable for shouting at him this morning so here it goes. Not 100% sure if it is my neighbours eldest son or there daughters boy friend. He sleeps there most nights but doesn't appear to have house keys, I know this because he sits in his car at the bottom of my drive waiting to be let in. So he went through a stage of what ever side of the drive I parked in he would park directly behind me across the bottom of the drive blocking me in. This made it difficult to get off the drive as I was blocked in and had to kind of edge backwards and forwards to move the car to the otherside of the drive to reserve off it safely. We have a dropped kerb that runs the whole width of the drive but this didn't seem to bother him. I started reversing on to make it easier to pull off and out of the blue he stopped doing it. He has now moved on walking through our front garden to get to and from this car. So he comes out of their house steps over a small wall and walks right over my front door step and behind my car. He will push my kitchen windows in if they are open wide so he can fit behind the car easier then trotts off down the drive. On occasion if we have been leaving at the same time he has bumped into my dc or I have had to step back to stop him walking into me, I have asked him to stop but he doesn't. So this morning when dh was leaving for work he did it again and dh lost his temper and shouted at him and swore a bit, was dh in the wrong for this and how would you deal with the situation?

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TheweewitchRoz · 31/05/2017 09:33

All the best for today Flowers

namechange20050 · 31/05/2017 09:39

Good luck today op!

qazxc · 31/05/2017 09:47

Thinking of you today op. Enjoy meeting your little one. Flowers

FrancisCrawford · 31/05/2017 10:12

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LemonCurdles · 31/05/2017 10:32

Also thinking of you today Flowers

Pippiphooray · 31/05/2017 10:37

Thinking of you. Hope all goes well. Sounds like you have a lovely supportive family.

TheMaddHugger · 31/05/2017 12:09

A message from OP from the 29th {sorry Just seen it myself]

From:Light69To:TheMaddHuggerSubject:Re: (((Hugs))))))Date:Mon 29-May-17 13:34:15
"Thank you for the encouraging words, I am calm on the outside but freaking out on the inside. The statistics are good for 35 week baby girls and I know she will be safer out as the placenta is not functioning as well as it should be. I think it is the not knowing what to expect when she is born that I am worried about but I am sure in the moment everything will just seem normal as the midwives and nurses do a wonderful job of keeping everything calm and relaxed. I promise to update end of next week when dd is here and everyone is a bit more relaxed."

So It may take a while before we know anything from OP
I am sure she appreciates our good wishes
FrancisCrawford · 31/05/2017 12:37

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WhatchaMaCalllit · 31/05/2017 12:41

Thanks for the updates MaddHugger.

Hope everything is going well for you today Light69 and that it wont be too much longer before your newest edition is with you and you're in recovery after your C-section.

Have loads of these Flowers Flowers Flowers to get you through the next few days.

Lynnm63 · 31/05/2017 15:55

Hope everything's ok op. I have everything crossed rooting for you both. Girls are so much stronger than boys with my twins it was dd who was smallest.

Willow2017 · 31/05/2017 17:02

Thinking of you today light. Hope your baby girl is here to meet you already. Take it easy let every one look after you.

Pollyanna9 · 31/05/2017 19:12

Best wishes to OP - so scary but deffo in the right place and receiving excellent care from our lovely NHS midwives and obstetricians. Safe arrival of beautiful baby girl trumps twat boy 1xmillion times over and we all look forward most of all of hearing of your little girl's entry into the family (with incredibly fantastic grandad for her to look forward to!).

Smallangryplanet · 31/05/2017 19:18

Flowers Gin I was 4.9lbs,not that you'd ever guess.

Mrsdarcyiwish10 · 31/05/2017 21:38

My dd was 5lb born at 34 weeks and perfect, no special care needed, hope all went well

YouDancin · 31/05/2017 23:38

I hope everything went well for you today and you've met your lovely new baby and are sleeping peacefully.

blueskyinmarch · 01/06/2017 06:47

I hope everything has gone well for you OP. Flowers

youarenotkiddingme · 01/06/2017 07:32

Flowers hope you and DD are safe and well.

This thread is MN gold. Driveway/neighbour thread complete with diagram turning into a live birth thread!

TheMaddHugger · 01/06/2017 11:13

UPDATE FROM OP

From:Light69To:TheMaddHuggerSubject:Re: (((Hugs))))))Date:Thu 01-Jun-17 05:59:49
Thank you so much for your kind messages. Dd has arrived safely weighing 3lb 13oz, she is just on oxygen at the moment to help with her breathing so doing really well. She is so tiny but compared to some other babies in SCBU she looks like really big. Thank you again for your kindness it is lovely to know that there are still some kind caring people left in the world.

WelshMoth · 01/06/2017 11:24

Yey! Welcome baby! Delighted all is well. Another little heart beating in this world Flowers

redshoeblueshoe · 01/06/2017 11:24
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UnicornSparkles1 · 01/06/2017 11:28

Ahh congratulations! Welcome to the world baby girl Flowers

ohfourfoxache · 01/06/2017 11:29

Oh how wonderful!

Welcome to the world Baby Light Thanks

NightWanderer · 01/06/2017 11:29

Ds was around that size when he was born and is absolutely fine now. I hope she gets strong quickly. Flowers

hollyisalovelyname · 01/06/2017 12:10

🎉💐
Congratulations OP

OnTheRise · 01/06/2017 12:15

So many congratulations! This is lovely news.

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