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Neighbour constantly walking through my front garden.

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Light69 · 16/05/2017 06:41

I am not sure if my dh was being unreasonable for shouting at him this morning so here it goes. Not 100% sure if it is my neighbours eldest son or there daughters boy friend. He sleeps there most nights but doesn't appear to have house keys, I know this because he sits in his car at the bottom of my drive waiting to be let in. So he went through a stage of what ever side of the drive I parked in he would park directly behind me across the bottom of the drive blocking me in. This made it difficult to get off the drive as I was blocked in and had to kind of edge backwards and forwards to move the car to the otherside of the drive to reserve off it safely. We have a dropped kerb that runs the whole width of the drive but this didn't seem to bother him. I started reversing on to make it easier to pull off and out of the blue he stopped doing it. He has now moved on walking through our front garden to get to and from this car. So he comes out of their house steps over a small wall and walks right over my front door step and behind my car. He will push my kitchen windows in if they are open wide so he can fit behind the car easier then trotts off down the drive. On occasion if we have been leaving at the same time he has bumped into my dc or I have had to step back to stop him walking into me, I have asked him to stop but he doesn't. So this morning when dh was leaving for work he did it again and dh lost his temper and shouted at him and swore a bit, was dh in the wrong for this and how would you deal with the situation?

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EZA15 · 30/06/2017 21:51

From what I gather Grainfail the twit ended punching (or trying to) the op's husband

Grainfail · 30/06/2017 22:24

Thanks EZA
I couldn't figure out why no-one had asked and thought I couldn't be the only one who still cares
But apparently I'm just the only one who couldn't follow the thread(!)

WhatHo · 01/07/2017 16:50

Thanks for updating Madd/Light - fingers crossed DD2 is home x

TroubleinDaFamily · 01/07/2017 17:15

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AtHomeDadGlos · 01/07/2017 17:16

Good luck OP

vikingprincess81 · 01/07/2017 17:27

Flowers for you OP xx

happymumof4crazykids · 01/07/2017 17:38

Glad baby arrived safely and I hope you are now all home and well! I really need to know what happened though it's like getting to the end of a book and the last page being missing! Blush

Lynnm63 · 02/07/2017 16:56

happymum I'm sure op will come back. She is a bit busy though with a baby in SCBU.

NetworkGuy · 02/07/2017 17:17

F$%$^$g cheeky bugger.

Tell DH to spill his coffee over this teenage idiot next time and to "Get the fuck off your property".

Little sod needs to be taught a lesson, and while it may cause a rift between you and neighbour, maybe tell neighbours you will be getting in touch with the Police for an ASBO against this idiot who does not walk to the street to reach his own car.

If he was banned from the street, as a non-resident, that would be best (!)

Sorry, the bad language is quite out of character, but my other solutions would have me in prison for GBH !

I don't suppose he is non-British and ignorant of the English language, because if he is English and choosing to ignore being told (presumably politely, by you) he is being deliberate tosser and deserves everything he gets (ASBO for example).

I hope the suggestion you'll involve the Police might shake things up enough to stop this PITA from continuing, though he'll obviously be aPITA with a flea in his ear once the neighbours mention your plans...

Ilovecoleslaw · 02/07/2017 17:46

Loved reading this thread op, hope all is well Flowers

GiraffesCantPlayHopScotch · 03/07/2017 00:21

Congratulations xx

scootinFun · 08/07/2017 15:50

So @Light69, how are things now? And what happened with your dad?

ADayGivingMeHope · 12/07/2017 19:56

Jumping on very late! What an amazing thread!
Hope you and your new little one is ok @Light69 !!!

NetworkGuy · 30/10/2017 22:37

Don't AIBU threads "die" after 90 days ? Seems not.

Oh well, live and learn. Teach me for not visiting for a while.

I'm surprised that threads I was watching months back are still around.

PinkSnowAndStars · 30/10/2017 22:47

Now it’s come back I want an update!!

LannieDuck · 30/10/2017 23:01

What, no update?? Noooooo!

Elllicam · 31/10/2017 01:49

Oh no no update? Congratulations on your baby OP although she’ll be a few months old by now Smile

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