What bothers me about leave voters is while they're not all racist, they've sided with those who are
What bothers me about remain voters is while (I presume) they don't all think leave voters are too stupid to vote, or too old to vote, they've sided with those who do. They don't all shout 'bigot, xenophobe, Little Englander' rather than debate the issues, but they've sided with those who do.
Every attempt by Leavers on Mumsnet to discuss the result immediately after the referendum last year was shouted down and derailed by Remainers. If Remainers think all Leavers share the responsibility for the actions of a few, then all Remainers equally share responsibility for that.