I am done with you x

[ChristinaParsons]

Well? Both of us nearly 50, marriages of 20, years grown up children.
Both seperated a long time when we met. Got this message tonight
Said WHAT? Called him twice. No answer. My self respect is done
But why?

Threads like these are always total bollocks.

If you can bring yourself to start a thread, no matter how distraught, then it's not that much of a stretch to be able to form complete sentences!

Oh you poor thing, OP What an utter fucking bastard he was! I know everyone says, Delete & forget, but gosh, it's hard.

I hope you have good girlfriends who can join you in the essential chorus of "Men are bastards" and feed you gin & chocolate.

Hmmm...very confusing. Have you heard any more op ?

And PS.

Only the hard of understanding would not understand the OP's posts.

And only the hard of feeling would rip into her.

This is someone in what she thought was a grown up, equal & loving relationship who got dumped. And not just by text - which is BAD enough, but the actual dumping "I am doe with you."

What the fucking fuck?

My feeling is that you are the rebound relationship after the break up of his marriage. Your only option at this point is to view him as having been the same.

Forget this arsehole him and get on with your life!

Text him to say, if you'd known he had the intellect of a 3 year old....he would never had got started with you! Then delete all connections with him!

Storm in a teacup perhaps? All better now?

Dear god, the lack of reading comprehension on this thread. Just take a frigging minute and look at the words that are there. I have read all OP's posts once each and was not remotely confused about her marriage, whether she was single at the start of this relationship, any of the things people have been going on about.

Here's an idea, if you can see something's written very briefly or a bit oddly, give it an ounce of extra attention instead of complaining that the OP hasn't spoonfed the info into your brain five different ways. And if you still don't get it, consider not replying rather than laying into someone who's obviously upset. I don't care if this is AIBU, there's still such a thing as being a dickhead and the dickheads have been out in force on here.

What an infuriating thread!!!

Why haven't you gone to where he lives and demand an explanation? You are both adults and a text never f*cking washes. Jesus grow a pair! Both of you.

Any update op?

she's gone. if she was ever really here in the first place.

Are you done with us, OP?

Shameless placemarking...

Think OP has done one! Probably just a misunderstanding with the text message. It happens

Reasons to end it: cheating, lying, imprudence, alcoholic, druggy, violence, gambling, being totally ignored over a long period, infidelity, crime, antisocial actions, continuing bad habits, etc. Keep calm, explore options.

Definitely a lot of vital info missing. No-one would randomly text that to someone they had been with for 18 months without there being some sort of problem in the relationship. Sounds to me that the comment had followed an argument or ongoing issue. How can we judge without hearing what lead up to the text? Who knows, him ending it may have been for a justifiable reason?

Sounds to me like maybe a 3rd party has used his phone in an attempt blow everything up....maybe estranged wife? OP is probably off shell shocked and licking her wounds....don't blame her tbh.

Sounds like a misunderstanding, who dumps someone that abruptly but then also puts an x at the end?

Any update?

Op where are you? I hope you're alright.

I guess we will never know the outcome of this.

This has unreasonably annoyed me.