I am done with you x

[ChristinaParsons]

Well? Both of us nearly 50, marriages of 20, years grown up children.
Both seperated a long time when we met. Got this message tonight
Said WHAT? Called him twice. No answer. My self respect is done
But why?

OP, maybe some messages haven't come through that you haven't seen?

I think the Op may have mistaken the meaning of the text.
Hopefully they will speak soon and all will be well.

Did you text him between his two texts last night? Has he rally ended it or have you misread something?

Regardless of whether this is all a huge understanding, I don't think I'd be able to not respond with something like 'sorry?'... OP, did you reply to his 'night'? And what did his text actually say?

I think you have misunderstood, or he has made a typing error, or a light-hearted joke.
With a X at the end it's unlikely to be a break-up text.

I'm going to go out on a limb and say there's an OW and she sent this text. The kiss is odd and the tone is non specific as if the sender doesn't know enough about your relationship.

It's a misunderstanding or an autocue. Ring him up or go round op.

Just wondering, do you both have English as your first language? Genuine question.

It's like Vaguebooking but on MN. It'll be all "can't talk, pm me Hun" in a minute.

I think maybe the OP hears "my bad" as my part?

Send back - "Thank Gawd for that! I was wondering how to get rid of you - can't stand needy men."

I don't get it , sorry op.

Oh dear, the whole thing is a bit bewildering. Hope you're okay OP

Sounds like you've done something wrong or your behaviour has annoyed him over time. (Not saying you actually have but that's what he thinks IMHO) People don't usually send such messages for no reason whatsoever. Are you aware of any problems in the relationship.

Zazie It's really easy to understand! Just imagine it's someone crying and choking out a few words at a time - this makes no sense! You choke out words when crying because you can't breathe. As far as I'm aware it doesn't affect your ability to type...

My part ?

It will be a misunderstanding

I'm done with you or I give up on you... which is it OP?

TBH I'm so confused by your replies that I have given up trying to understand this thread and I'm also done.

Are your texts as hard to decipher?

You'd be better to give up texting for the time being and have a telephone or face to face conversation. This is beyond just silly for two adults.

I'd reply saying goodnight and goodbye. And mean it.

Have you phoned him OP, that's the only way you'll find out exactly what he means.

Hope you're ok

Have you heard from him op? I think that text was meant for someone else

Is he cheating on you? Could it be meant for someone else?

I think it must have been meant for someone else too.

Agree, doesn't sound like it was meant for you op