Worried She is Having An Affair

[jamesk0001]

DW has lost a lot of weight over the last few months since the new year, going from 10 stone to 7 stone and is making a real effort to look better, going to the gym, wearing make up etc, buying new clothes.

Last night she went out with the girls and got home late. I was in bed and she thought I was asleep.

I noticed that when she got undressed she was wearing stockings and had totally shaved down there! She has never done that before and has not worn stockings since we got married 30 years ago!

In the morning she had already got up and dressed before I awoke. So I haven't officially seen the shaved area and am dying to bring it up but don't want to be told a lie!

Other changes are that she is always texting on her phone and has really gone off intimate times with me.

We are both in our 50s and this is burning me up!

Advice gratefully received!

[VladmirsPoutine]

Well that escalated and de-escalated quickly!

Good luck OP!

[LilQueenie]

Sounds like me. I lost weight and suddenly found myself getting out more. No affair at all just happier in myself.

[velvetcandy]

Bring back the bush

[Shitalopram]

Good news OP!

[PollytheDolly]

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Actually she has been about 5ft 1 for about 35 or her 50 years. She started off at about 1 foot but I didn't know her then and she was very young.
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Lol. Great comeback OP.


Glad all is well!

[April229]

Sorry you're feeling concerned about this, I think you won't be able to do anything to set your mind at ease without actually talking to her.

Ask her why she is on the phone so much next time it's an issue, ask her to be honest. Maybe her new found weigh loss has inspired a second lease of life and she's looking to shake things up a bit, not necessarily with a new man. Maybe there's a new thing you could both do together so you could be part of the new stuff that's happening.

Ps you're right to be annoyed about the red top milk!

[LiviaDrusillaAugusta]

April Read the full thread....

[April229]

Yes, sorry only just read through the updates, jumped in a bit soon....was feeling bad for the comments OP was getting on page one.

[stopfuckingshoutingatme]

agree - if she's was shagging someone she would have a shower first . OP to be honest the texting would
Worry me - just talk to her

Say you don't want to put 2 and 2 together and make 3 . But there are way too many changes and you want to check with her ? Her reaction will start to give you and idea

Hope it's nothing OP

[LiviaDrusillaAugusta]

Read the whole thread....