To not really get why folk have threesomes

[PetallyTyrants]

It just seems like a lot of work

I'd rather Mumsnet.

Am I right or am I missing out?

Plus all sorts of potential for awkwardness. Like who's putting what where, to who, when

Who goes first? I mean what the what

I'd never even think of it. I think jealousy is a natural part of a committed relationship and part of my commitment is that I'd never want to share. I don't understand how anyone that truly loves their partner would be happy to share them!

Totally agree with weeblueberry about "multi-tasking". I feel the same about 69s. Can't be concentrating on someone else's pleasure when I'm, um, distracted.

I have had a threesome, though. The two men shook hands at the end which I thought was sweet.

Oh goodness! I like camping too. Maybe that's just the mindset required - a certain joy in getting a fairly complicated and slightly implausible structure to go up, a willingness to get mucky and a sense that everything is more fun if it shouldn't really be coming together and somehow is.

Ahem.

Not
I also like camping (with tents, not camping vans....). And I like threesomes.
And complicated board games...
Maybe there is actually a connection?

My threesomes have never been contrived or remotely like camping or furniture building I can assure you. Much more subtle and natural.

I've done the threesome bit and i like camping.

This thread is turning into important research now. It's virtually science.

ClaryBeanHorshAndMe - I also like complicated board games! My god! There IS a connection!

Playing Settlers of Catan is just the first step towards sexual perversion!

There is a special Tinder type app called 3ndr for those keen to try

NotReallyMeToday

Oh gosh :=0

I used to love Settlers. (So did my brother and quite a few of my cousins. Oh no, no, no, no. I did not just think this. I will delete this thought....)

Ever played Magic Realm, World in Flames or Star Fleet Battles?

NotReallyMeToday

I like camping too - and enjoyed a threesome. I think you might be on to something!

I think those that can't imaging it are possibly overthinking it!
The point is, it's meant to be fun.

It's doesn't need to be complicated or difficult. You don't have to overthink it if you're in the right situation and you all want to - wanting to being the key!

It's like asking - how could you dance with three people? Well, perfectly well, and it should be fun - or it could be, with the right dance partners and a vibe that suits you.

But - it's possibly not so fun with dance partners that are overly concerned with about how they look, or doing the "right" moves, or what others are thinking about them - or just into a different kind of dance to you.

But I reckon you could have great fun dancing as one of three people who are enjoying the music, living in the moment and simply enjoying themselves, don't you? (Assuming you want to in the first place!!)

Couldn't with 2 fellas but a lad n a lass I could probably force myself.

I've had a couple of threesomes now and I loved every minute of it. There's nothing wrong with trying new things in the bedroom to keep things interesting and boy were they interesting!

Done that...
Tee-shirt etc... enjoyed both 'flavours' ... having an enthusiastic teammate really helps...

I had a threesome, but one of the people was French so I'm not sure it counts

Bloody 'ek. I can't find one bloke to be ultimately disappointed by my lack of prowess, let alone two! (Sigh)

Waddlelikeapenguin I think that it's called a 'ménage a trois' when the French are involved 😀

'So, Joey, have you ever been . . . in a Turkish prison?'

Oh I have had a threesome and been camping. The first was hysterical fun and the latter bloody awful and rainy.

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threesomes when camping, obviously

Do people other than young single lads really have threesomes ??shocked if so

I think the only threesome I could deal with (because I don't share DH well) would be one involving myself, the hubby, and Scott Caan. Yes, that one with the lovely arse off Hawaii Five-0.

I certainly would not mind spending some time with Scotty the Hotty, and wouldn't mind observing him with DH either, but maybe that's just my kink

Roversandrhodes who do you think the young single lads are having threesomes with - exclusively each other? If not, why did you erase the young single from your question? How odd!

Do you see sex as something that's done to women rather that something we willingly participate in, maybe?
Or are you saying threesomes are only for young gay men
Or what?!