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nobullshitallowed · 22/03/2017 13:19

Sorry I'm posting for traffic, have already started a thread and had barely any replies. Not sure what I'm looking for really, a handhold or people who have been through similar.

Around 6-7 weeks ago, my ds aged 6 suddenly started complaining of hip/joint aches and pains. I put it down to growing pains.

3 weeks ago he went really lethargic, he sleeps 6-6.30 so is having enough sleep. His teachers started commenting that he was tired in school, told he has gone from a really happy active boy to quite irritable.

Managed to get him into the doctors, who checked him over, went through quite a lot with him. He's now urgently requested that he have full bloods done. And referred him urgently to a children's hospital.

He then told asked me what I thought they would be testing for, I have been googling and each time it comes up with leukaemia Sad. So I told asked my doctor that. He said that was a big worry and it's why he is referring him so quickly. He said the way my son has explained the pain and pointed it out it rules out other causes.

He's at hospital next Thursday, and I'm bloody terrified. Feel awful for not taking it seriously at first. I honestly just thought growing pains.

My other ds 3 is diagnosed epileptic, I'm petrified for what's to come for ds 6 now Sad

Would be grateful for anyone who has been through similar to reply.

Thanks for reading sorry if it's all mumbled I just feel so numb and not really explaining myself properly.

OP posts:
IonaNE · 26/03/2017 22:01

I hope everything will turn out to be ok, OP. I am sorry you are going through this. Flowers

NeverTwerkNaked · 26/03/2017 22:02

I hope the body scan brings good news, or at least some answers and a positive plan.
Sorry your DH can't be there xx

ninenicknames · 26/03/2017 22:03
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Specialagentblond · 26/03/2017 22:04

Keep hanging in there, whatever happens, we'll get you through x

Hope all goes well tomorrow x

Iamthedogsmother · 26/03/2017 22:04

Oh OP, what a nightmare. Been thinking of you all weekend. Stay strong, holding your hand x

Ojoj1974 · 26/03/2017 22:05

I don't have any experience but want to give you a huge hug.
It's good that the doctors are acting quickly. Don't google, we all k ow it gives is the worst case senario.
Take each day at a time and focus on what you do know and what you can do.
With all my love and prayers x

Mammysin · 26/03/2017 22:06

Thinking of you with hope for good news.

Pippiphooray · 26/03/2017 22:06

Thinking of you so much.

Groovee · 26/03/2017 22:06

Sending you some Flowers and hugs x

sprinklesofweirdness · 26/03/2017 22:07

Thinking of youFlowersFlowers

passmethewineplease · 26/03/2017 22:08

Thinking of you OP Flowers

Huge hugs to you. X

LimitedSedition · 26/03/2017 22:11

Just read this x sending you Flowers and love for tomorrow

Yeeyeelovesraaraa · 26/03/2017 22:14

Thinking of this & echoing the sentiments of others - you are not alone.Flowers

elevenswan · 26/03/2017 22:15

We're all here for you op, whenever or whatever you need. Really really hope that things turn out well for you, you both sound like you're being so brave x

Molly333 · 26/03/2017 22:15

Any news ?

pieceofpurplesky · 26/03/2017 22:16

Thinking of you Flowers

2017SoFarSoGood · 26/03/2017 22:20

Whatever happens next you will deal with it because you sound like an amazingly strong mum. So sorry your DH won't be with you, but we're all here for you to lean on when you need us.

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Mandatorymongoose · 26/03/2017 22:24

Hope you get some rest tonight Flowers

zukiecat · 26/03/2017 22:24

Been thinking of you all weekend and hoping for good news for you and your wee boy

I hope the scan tomorrow will give you answers and good news,

Love And Light Flowers

deardarlingg · 26/03/2017 22:27

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Choconuts · 26/03/2017 22:29

Good luck for tomorrow x

Gooseygoosey12345 · 26/03/2017 22:30

Couldn't read and run, sending positive thoughts! BrewFlowers

Ironfloor · 26/03/2017 22:30

Holding your hand. Can't imagine what you are going through. Hope everything goes well and that it turns out to be nothing serious.

Lovemysofa · 26/03/2017 22:35

Hand holding here too. We're all here for you, xx

picklemepopcorn · 26/03/2017 22:37

Maybe ask him what would help him when he needs blood tests done. Make suggestions like having a video on, or a lolly to suck. Give him a bit of control, like saying 'when' etc. Good luck.

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