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234 replies

MrsA2015 · 21/03/2017 21:57

One of mine was being on all fours and fed an M&S Mexican 3 bean wrap, which I promptly threw up leaving the poor student midwife to clear up. Oh and asking for jellied eels (I've never had them before and don't like seafood)

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Skywest · 23/03/2017 19:02

I was pretty much convinced that everyone was lying to me and the anaestatist wasn't coming to give me my epidural!

phoenix1973 · 23/03/2017 19:12

Asking the nurse to pass me that picture on the wall. That frame looks thick and I need to bite on it.

She didn't give me the picture. Unfortunately I bit my mum instead and broke my tooth.

Kittymum03 · 23/03/2017 19:15

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Deploycharitygoats · 23/03/2017 19:17

With DS1, I asked the registrar to "hold that thought" in response to the question she asked as a particularly strong contraction took hold. When it receded, looked up and said "sorry, you were saying?" (DH said afterward that he was all ready to tell her to pipe down and engage her brain before asking a detailed question of someone mid-contraction, but my uncharacteristic politeness beat him to it).

DS2 I kept dropping off between contractions, and one dream involved a middle aged Japanese man. I can remember no other details, just one really strong mental image.

Steviea88 · 23/03/2017 19:24

With dd1 my waters were trickling so I had to go in.
This lady consultant came round to give me a sweep and I remember spotting a Rolex watch. I said to her 'you can lose that up there if you want' I weren't even on drugs at this point.

During the labour I remember saying to my poor mum. 'Your meant to be my mum and not make me feel this pain why are you letting them kill me and your just watching?' My poor mother!

When pushing I kept saying I needed a poo and I remember the midwife shouting out 'shit Steve SHIT' and I kept saying I can't I can't poo and she was literally screaming 'SHHHIIIIIITTTT!'
So I did.

When babies heartbeat dropped and my contractions stopped the consultant and a zillion students ran in and cut me and used forceps. They had taken me off of all pain killers a while before this and I remember feeling the baby being pulled with the forceps and screaming 'it's an alien inside me, please get it out'

Then being rushed in for c section I was in such a terrible place I remember grabbing my consultants hand saying 'please Tom, knock me out please. Even if it's not with drugs just punch me in the face. And I kept kissing my fingers and rubbing them all over his face Hmm

Greensky91 · 23/03/2017 19:26

Was getting stitches full of gas and air, when my mum arrived and I very loudly told my mum I was in pain but it would all be worth it because I would have a 'designer vigina' the poor midwife didn't know where to look 🙈🙈🙈🙈

andpropersteel · 23/03/2017 19:27

I peed in a cup then handed it to the mw as I thought she'd think I was weird if I dirtied my pool by peeing in it Hmm

MumsGoneToYonderLand · 23/03/2017 19:29

wobbling to a side room from reception as they had no room for me in maternity (in any proper beds with gas n air supply etc) and the midwife shouting at DH to 'run back and get her overnight bag before its stolen'. He was gone 30 seconds. in that time I gave birth standing up, caught my own baby while the useless midwife kept saying 'lie down, lie down on the bed!'. I said 'No way, you get on your fucking knees'!

so IMO I gave birth to my DS1 without any help from the NHS. the second time (different non-failing hospital) the midwives were all brilliant!

candyvilla · 23/03/2017 19:30

During labour with ds1 I screamed out "I just want a f**king big fat greasy burger". With ds2 in ambulance about ready to push and I kept shouting at the ambulance driver to pull over for the ambulance with it's flashing lights and siren on. Repeatedly until the paramedic in the back with me started pissing himself with laughter and explained that it was the ambulance I was in that had it's lights and siren on. Whoops. Nothing with ds3 though.

Isitjustmeorisiteveryoneelse · 23/03/2017 19:38

Not flashback as mine is captured on, not video as much as soundtrack. After being left on my own for hours on the Postnatal ward, because it was so busy everywhere else that was the only place I could be, and being forgotten about until someone finally remembered me and rushed me in to the delivery room as DD was making her own way out, way too late for pain relief of any kind, I gave birth calmly and serenely (DH confirms). DD came out with cord wrapped round her neck and after a few minutes work on her DH was allowed to video her cooing and peering at him, whilst I, unseen in the background scream my head off as the stitches are going in. So whole human squeezed out, fine. Tiny stitches, not fine.

Lilyloo456 · 23/03/2017 19:44

While have dd in the birthing pool I was sweating and screamed at my mum to put a flannel on my head. She disappeared and came rushing back and stuck something on my forehead to "cool me down" wasn't till I had dd ( and was a bit more with it) that I realised she's stuck a damp (unused but MASSIVE) sanitary towel on my head! I must have looked a right twat

lilyborderterrier · 23/03/2017 19:44

I totally tripped out on Gas and Air thinking I'd actually given birth. I remember getting out of the birth pool and bouncing on the ball, leaning over the side of the pool with my partner rubbing my back. My lovely midwife left the room and I definitely felt the baby shift and I thought I'd actually given birth. ( I remember my nct class talking about how the midwives will give you space at that moment!) I was so cross when I "woke up" and they told me I hadn't had the baby. I ranted and shouted at them bless them and was in labour for hours more until I gave birth back in the pool.

flumpsnshit · 23/03/2017 19:45

I've told this before but....
I was induced with dd2 and they classed it as a trial because I'd had an emergency c-section within 2 years. So all the Drs and midwives were happily popping in and out to see whether my scar would break and it would go tits up ! Spoiler it did
Anyway they asked if I would mind ( 15 hours in) if two visiting consultants could come in, I said yes no problem and they came in. 1 was called Bill and American and the other was a small ginger haired man with huge plastic spex. I thought it was hysterical to call him 'mole man ' as he didn't look in my face but went straight to rummaging my nether regions trying to break my waters .
I then shouted Kill bill when the other consultant had a go ! My waters were very stubborn.

Blackfellpony · 23/03/2017 19:47

All I remember is literally begging the midwife to give me drugs for what felt like hours.

Please please can I have drugs, something to make it stop, please please pleaaaaseeee...over and over again while sobbing my eyes out hysterically.
I actually said to her "I can't push I'm too scared" repeatedly in between the begging. I didn't actually push much at all as it hurt so much, in the end DS made his way with minimal help from me.

Never did get any pain relief despite my wailing Hmm

sjd84 · 23/03/2017 20:24

I remember being very concerned about our car park ticket running out, but would not let my husband go to get another one. Also, we were due a food delivery at the time and I remember my husband answering my phone to the delivery man and telling him we were in hospital having a baby, his answer was "so shall I wait or do you not want the food then?"

When our DS was born and they handed him to be, I just said "oooh a baby!" Not sure what else I was expecting.

Fbearsmum · 23/03/2017 20:25

Demanding the midwife checked that I wasn't having a poo, bless her she checked then decided to examine me and announced to the student nurse that that was a sign of being fully dilated. She then patted me on the leg and said it won't be long till you meet your baby you're ready to push. I'd progressed faster than she was expecting as she wasn't due to examine me for another hour.

Sassenach85 · 23/03/2017 20:29

This thread is bad for my health!!! I have a chest infection and I literally keep having a coughing fit laughing at all these stories Grin

Funniest things I've read in ages!

I've nothing hugely hilarious to add. Although my DH kept telling me to wiggle my toes (something to do with epidural). I was off my face on gas and air and pethidine and god knows what else so obviously thinking on his feet my DH decides to try the "she only understands mental shit right now so join the crazy train" method.

He kept saying play the piano with your feet and we were both in hysterics singing opera while I wiggled my toes ....

To be honest I actually had a horrific birth (long story) but this thread has made things seem a bit funny instead of them feeling so frightening. Even now 3 years later!!

Great thread OP, loving it!

MrsChopper · 23/03/2017 20:53

please Tom, knock me out please. Even if it's not with drugs just punch me in the face

I am so sorry, it sounds like you had a rough time but I am giggling my head off trying to imagine his face while you said that Grin

Swizzel · 23/03/2017 20:55

I'd been watching Father Ted all morning before going into labour with my first DD. At the hospital, whilst high on gas and air, plus pethidine, I started ranting on about crack cocaine in a really bad Irish accent. The midwife actually took my husband to one side and asked him if I was a drug addict. I, in the meantime, had started doing a Mrs Doyle: "Have a nice cup of tea, go on, y'will, y'will."

Hours later, following an emergency caesarean, I came round as they were wheeling me out of theatre. All I could see was a big clear plastic thing with pockets filled with what I was convinced were foetuses. Following a major freak out, one of the nurses calmed me down and kindly pointed out that they were, in fact, the swabs used during the ops, and that they have to count them in and out again to ensure nothing gets left behind inside the patient. I felt very, very stupid.

Even stupider than my above mistake: DD2 was also a caesarean, but under epidural so I was awake for the procedure and got to see her very briefly before the anaesthetist told me that I was haemorrhaging and they were going to have to put me under. I can remember coming to briefly afterwards and a doctor talking to me, and then I zonked out again. When I woke up, I was convinced that said doctor had told me that I had lost a lot of blood, and that they had packed my lady parts and my bottom up with surgical towels to help stop the bleeding. I spent a whole 24 hours with this information stored in my head, until I was told that they were going to remove my catheter and that I could get up and try to walk to the toilet when I felt ready. I asked a nurse when they would be removing the towels from my various holes, and she could only look at me aghast whilst I explained what I thought I was stuffed with. I was mortified when she very kindly told me that I must have had a post-op hallucination, and that under no circumstances had anything of a kind happened. I still feel so utterly stupid every time I think of it...

Aquahol1 · 23/03/2017 21:20

Just remembered I bit my mum when in labour with DS1 just a gentle bite didn't hurt her. Weird!
When nearing the end of labour with DS2 I asked for some pain relief was near delirious then recognised the anaesthetist from the TV. He said he had one of those faces.. realised a week or so later was Tamal from Bake Off poor lad held my hand through a contraction as well 😂

MamaTT · 23/03/2017 21:20

Best part of my first labour was my late DH bringing me a banana to eat. It was opened upside down, and he was holding it at the stalk. I was like "wtf is that" and he said "this is how the monkeys open their bananas in the wild, they use the stalk as a little handle". I cried laughing and the midwives were howling. It's one of my favourite memories of him

WetsTheFinger · 23/03/2017 21:25

I told her she could be a superhero called Dr Bum Rummager and I'd be the sidekick, named Hole in One

I am proper belly laughing at this GrinGrinGrin

TheStoatIsStoatallyDifferent · 23/03/2017 21:29

I think punch me in the face might win the thread!

Sassenach85 · 23/03/2017 21:36

The bum hair story sticks out in my mind - "it's attached" haaaaaaaa 😂

HouseSparrow · 23/03/2017 21:37

Off my face on the lovely gas and air with dd2, I hallucinated the blue mouse from the Michael Rosen children's book 'a great big cuddle' and told the midwives 'Mr Hobson Jobson wants more gas please'!