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We should stand up for women by bringing down UK Punting...

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bringdownUKP · 21/03/2017 16:08

Over the course of a couple of threads recently my attention has been brought to the site UK Punting.

Basically where 'punters' go to rate working girl's and (the married ones) laugh about their wives and swap tips on how to avoid detection.

Apparently the poor little lambs can't help themselves.

Take a look for yourselves: www. ukpunting. com

AIBU that those of us who are genuinely pissed off with the misogynistic bullshit half of the users spout on there should set up fake profiles (not using your usual email address) and spam the shit of them?

And this isn't against WGs....you can do what you like with your body. It's the disgusting human beings that are cheating on their wives and partners and being smug thinking it's a bloody game...

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LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 21/03/2017 17:40

If you 'take action' then be prepared for them to retaliate - I imagine that they are quite capable of fucking with the site, and do we really want a repeat of Jeffreygate, with all the SWAT teams etc?

Still the amount of advertising they are getting for
free today is bizarre...

bringdownUKP · 21/03/2017 17:44

I'm definitely not trying to drum up click bait.
I'm a regular MN-er under a name change (quiches, naice ham and all that).

What I don't get is how MN has ended up being the subject of newspaper articles because we dare talk about sex on t'internet but sites like this which are on a whole different level get no negative press at all*

*oh except I do, because it's fine for men to talk about OWO and CIM but how dare women talk openly about shagging on threads about conception

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Maydivorcebewithyou · 21/03/2017 17:56

I discovered my ex husband had used prostitutes through this site so I'm weirdly grateful it exists-whilst finding it utterly vile. Otherwise I wouldn't have known that he had brought crack addicted prostitutes into our own bed while I visited my parents with our baby cos he was too busy to come with me.

statetrooperstacey · 21/03/2017 18:01

"Officer I can see my neighbours having sex and I'm very very offended "
"Really madam where ? I can't see anything "
"If you move the bed, stand on that chest of drawers and lean over the wardrobe "

I am not the least bit offended by the ukp site because I am not going to go and look on it. It's simple really! Try not to be bothered by randoms being wrong on the internet, especially in their own little corner. Which is the best place for them. And don't go poking the wasps nest, no good will come of it.

stumblymonkeyremix · 21/03/2017 18:06

I'm not offended. I'm angry.

Offended suggests some sort of prudish clutching of pearls....that's not what this is about.

I also don't believe that society is best served by a 'turn the other cheek' approach.

ThreeLeggedHaggis · 21/03/2017 18:20

They really are very pathetic men, but spamming their forum isn't the way to deal with it.

MN don't understand and will never understand prostitution.

I understand it very well, but you carry on being smug!

BillSykesDog · 21/03/2017 18:36

UK Punting is grim. Last time it was mentioned on here I had a look and came across a man who was complaining about all the selfish bitch hookers who will only do cam work while pregnant when he wants to fuck real pregnant women.

I believe there are other sites like AdultWork where WG can get reviews and work without the unrelenting grimness of punternet.

Incidentally I find some of the posts on here assuming that johns must be working class manual workers driving vans really snobby and also apparently not accurate either.

HelenaDove · 21/03/2017 18:43

A much better idea would be to make sure we vote against policies that are more likely to leave women so desperate that they turn to escorting/prostitution because they have no other choice if they want to put food on the table. With Universal Credit some are going weeks and in some cases months without money.

When the HB cut for 18 to 21 year olds come in this will limit their choices too. A zero hour contract or workfare or £3.40 an hour "apprenticeship" does not buy food AND pay rent AND the council tax gas bill electric etc.

As a society ppl need to vote against the policies that give women (especially working class women) less economic choice and that is where possible change lies not with communicating with the sickos on that site.

VestalVirgin · 21/03/2017 18:44

Yes, yes, men who go to prostitutes are disgusting.

But I don't see how it would help any to get that website removed? The website is just a symptom of the festering disease.

UK should adopt Nordic Model approach to prostitution. Then such websites will go away all by themselves.

VestalVirgin · 21/03/2017 18:47

As a society ppl need to vote against the policies that give women (especially working class women) less economic choice and that is where possible change lies not with communicating with the sickos on that site.

Exactly. As far as I know that's part of the Nordic Model approach, though I have heard it is being watered down in the some countries, so we should make sure there's an emphasis on keeping women out of poverty, too.

lavenderandrose · 21/03/2017 18:49

ThreeLegged I'm not smug; I'm sad.

PortiaCastis · 21/03/2017 18:50

Good post Helena

HelloFreedom · 21/03/2017 18:52

HelenaDove. Spot on. If women and young girls didn't need to prostitute themselves, most wouldn't.

We absolutely should fight and campaign for more economic protection. How many sex workers would continue if there were safe, well paid alternatives that provided a good standard of living?

HelenaDove · 21/03/2017 18:58

Thanks Portia VV Freedom. Thanks

BillSykesDog · 21/03/2017 19:02

Yeah, because prostitution disappears under socialism and communism doesn't it. Hmm

lavenderandrose · 21/03/2017 19:03

There are numerous women who will always earn more from prostitution than any other work.

CaoNiMartacus · 21/03/2017 19:06

Not all men are like that. I know. I know.

And some women are awful. Yes.

HOWEVER.

I am so fucking glad I am a lesbian.

Seriously.

HelenaDove · 21/03/2017 19:06

Of course not Bill. A few years back there was a poster on here called 22honey She had exited the industry but posted on here how she had seen an increase in women ( a lot of them single parents) entering the industry since 2010.

I myself ended up working in a sex chatline office for two years from early 2001 when my choice was that or workfare.

HelenaDove · 21/03/2017 19:12

Bill there will be women who will do it anyway I get that.

But if we refuse to accept policies that place working class women at an economic disadvantage (poverty) that will widen their choices and decrease the chances of working class women entering the industry because they feel they have no choice.

Joey7t8 · 21/03/2017 19:13

Prostitution isn't known as the world's oldest profession for nothing. What do you think you're going to achieve by spamming a site? It certainly isn't going to put a stop to something that had been going on for hundreds (thousands?) of years before computers were invented.

Besides, is it not safer that working girls are able to advertise their services online and keep all of their earnings, as opposed to walking the streets and/or be at the mercy of a pimp?

HelloFreedom · 21/03/2017 19:17

Nope. Prostitution will never disappear. But it could be rarer. Fewer women and children could be ensnared in that world if there were better options and more protection.

HelloFreedom · 21/03/2017 19:18

Sorry Helena, x post. Think you're saying it better than me anyhow!

DeleteOrDecay · 21/03/2017 19:21

That site makes for some seriously grim reading. But I don't think spamming it will achieve anything.

The men on that site are pathetic and cowardly.

VestalVirgin · 21/03/2017 19:23

I am so fucking glad I am a lesbian.

If I was a lesbian, I'd be fucking glad, too.

Yeah, because prostitution disappears under socialism and communism doesn't it

Name one country that actually implemented communism and did not have a ruling caste, consisting of males, emerge pretty much immediately.

Where there is a class of people who have more money than the majority, there is likely to be a class of people that has less.

In the DDR, the government actually employed women to prostitute themselves and spy on the punters. How voluntery the prostitution part of this was is anyone's guess.

MelodramaticMa · 21/03/2017 19:31

What's the point in talking about them and giving them attention? It only fuels them. There are sites like this all over the Internet and we cannot do anything about it.

I don't care if this is an unpopular opinion but I would rather men like that be in one place such as that site than it be closed down. Prostitution is the oldest profession it will always be about and there will always be men paying for it, the internet is the future and websites like this will become more popular unfortunately.
There was a petition a few years ago to shut down another site like this I think it was called PuntNet or something like that? It didn't get far and the website is probably still live and kicking.

Yes there are some terrible things said on there but is it any different to twitter trolls or those who make fake accounts on FB or IG and troll people without the fear of being found out? Thanks to the net people can do this and will.
Best to ignore and just not fuel your anger by reading it.

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