We should stand up for women by bringing down UK Punting...

[bringdownUKP]

Over the course of a couple of threads recently my attention has been brought to the site UK Punting.

Basically where 'punters' go to rate working girl's and (the married ones) laugh about their wives and swap tips on how to avoid detection.

Apparently the poor little lambs can't help themselves.

Take a look for yourselves: www. ukpunting. com

AIBU that those of us who are genuinely pissed off with the misogynistic bullshit half of the users spout on there should set up fake profiles (not using your usual email address) and spam the shit of them?

And this isn't against WGs....you can do what you like with your body. It's the disgusting human beings that are cheating on their wives and partners and being smug thinking it's a bloody game...

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www.vice.com/en_uk/article/inside-uk-punting-the-tripadvisor-of-sex-workers

Ok where do I start

I'm probably the only male on here refuting against the whole concept of UKP.
I personally think UKP should be closed down for numerous reasons :
One of the key elements is the exploitation of deprived women.

Let me share a personal experience
So you can collectively gather more insight on my circumstances.

After my fiancé leaving because she couldn't distinguish between a good time and a lifetime,
depression had got best of me.
I myself had gone to visit one of these working class women.
Before I could come around to initiate myself into any sexual activity I thought maybe I should establish constructive dialogue.
As conversation went on we exchanged ideas and solutions to our individual problems.
After observing her characteristics
It's then I acknowledged how immoral my actions really were..

This women like many others on that platform are only trying to escape the narrow passage of poverty.
Why she shared such personal information with a complete stranger
Indicated how desperation can really push one to the edge. Or perhaps she registered my intentions were genuine which would create sympathy.

Since first meeting her and now excelling forward now after 8 months
We've developed a bond & love one another. As I'm trying to build and prosper for a combined future.
There's enough pitfalls and inventions
Along the way.

The most upsetting part is she still works As 'convenience girl' due to her requiring economical stability,
As her family,daughter plus bills debt and all the above are dependant on her being able to generate cash flow.
Not to imply I'm incapable of taking care of her financially I have my fair share of complexities before I can give a house which she can call a home.

Now to See men write diabolical,infallible experiences with this girl really does sicken me emotionally,

The funny thing is
I only I went visit her hoping to find a temporary source of happiness.
I suppose you meet the prettiest people in the ugliest places.

Which concludes :
Women shouldn't have to be subjected to such a shallow status
Especially when society has already reduced their worth and value for them.
That website is abhorrent to us all
Why would anyone want to glorify or capitalise one someone's misfortune?

If that site does have a price tag
Fuck it I'll take the hit and do a good deed for us all by purchasing it and banishing its existence forever!!

I don't understand wanting to take down their forum just because it's not a conversation we want to join.
Everybody needs sex. In varying quantities. Let's face it, exhausted mums often don't provide enough sex for our mates who support us.
The prostitutes provide a valuable service to society.

Adam, you are not thinking clearly. Anybody working a low skilled job is desperate, and this has always been true. The girl at the McDonald's counter is only doing it for the money!
Don't mix your own guilt and torment for how she chooses to earn her money.

Let's face it, exhausted mums often don't provide enough sex for our mates who support us.
The prostitutes provide a valuable service to society.

Oh, you have got to be taking the piss.

I didn't say that it wasn't disgusting. Clearly, it's not nice to think about anybody else having sex - no matter the circumstances.
We have our marriages and families to maintain. Whether people have their offensive forum or not - is not relevant to that.

But how many friends do you know who roll their eyes at the thought of sex with their husband? There is a reason that is an actual career option.

But how many friends do you know who roll their eyes at the thought of sex with their husband?

Just the one and he's a man.

Let's face it, exhausted mums often don't provide enough sex for our mates who support us.

Provide enough sex?

Mums won't be so exhausted if they have husbands who support them properly will they?

Everybody needs sex.

Wrong. No one needs sex, not every adult wants it either. Though I expect you're a bit too dim to understand that.

Let's face it, exhausted mums often don't provide enough sex for our mates who support us.

Sex is not a commodity to be 'provided', like a hot meal or fresh, iron clothes. Unless you're a stepford wife (are you?). If a man feels he's not getting enough sex, and it's more important to have it than his family, then he should leave the marriage (or to avoid such a thing, just have a wank). The want to have sex does not give the right to over-ride their partner's trust, or risk their health.

I can't bring myself to look at the site. The comments I've read on here are really disturbing. I think some of those men are bordering on evil, I really do.

Thank God they're only a tiny minority of men.

Visiting a site likes that does not only sully your profile: it improves their ratings. Please, people, suppress your instincts and don't visit.

I just had a look.

It's disgusting, but you realise just how fucking stupid these men are when they say things like the SNP have flooded Scotland with romanian prostitutes just in time for indyref 2.

Fucking idiots.

Prostitution is the oldest profession

Can we stop trotting out this tired, lazy, overused, hackneyed and inaccurate tripe as if it were some sort of seering insight?

UK Punting is used by sex workers to keep themselves safe as well. It's not all about men reviewing sex workers, there is another side to the story.

We live in a country where sex work is legal, it is a dangerous type of work at times - I will support anything that provides more safety to those that chose to work in that industry, and those that are forced to work in that industry.

Prostitution is not work nor an industry.

@Adam10001

"This women like many others on that platform are only trying to escape the narrow passage of poverty. "

What utter tripe. I know a few sex workers; many of them are highly educated, wealthy and chose sex work because it's what they want to do.

"Since first meeting her and now excelling forward now after 8 months
We've developed a bond & love one another. As I'm trying to build and prosper for a combined future."

Are you still paying her?

Also, it is a crime to pay for sexual services in this country

In the U.K? No it isn't. A punter might be the lowest form of pond scum but it is not actually a crime.

That site is unintentionally hilarious! Pathetic men whinging that the woman wasnt interested, didn't make eye contact etc.

Do they not see the funny in that? They have had to PAY someone to shag them ffs

Everybody needs sex. In varying quantities. Let's face it, exhausted mums often don't provide enough sex for our mates who support us.

Bollocks

Anybody working a low skilled job is desperate, and this has always been true.

And dont you fucking dare

Everybody needs sex? What a load of steaming white curly dog shite

Sex is not what's being sold, access to a vagina is being sold.

Sex is connection. Prostitution is in the same ballpark as sexual assault. It's just about power and nothing about sex.

The way the men write backs this up. They call them "prossies" and complain that their faces aren't as nice as their bodies, like the women are a product.

Prostitution is described as a preferable alternative to chatting up women in bars, because the men get what they want, which is a vagina to use and discard with no consequences.

I don't care how supposedly empowered one women is in a heap of trafficked prostitutes from Eastern Europe or wherever else.

There is nothing empowering about being fucked by a man who hates women so much that he'd rather pay to fuck an anonymous vagina than actually build any semblance of connection with one.

Let's face it, exhausted mums often don't provide enough sex for our mates who support us.
The prostitutes provide a valuable service to society.

Did a woman really say that?