We should stand up for women by bringing down UK Punting...

[bringdownUKP]

Over the course of a couple of threads recently my attention has been brought to the site UK Punting.

Basically where 'punters' go to rate working girl's and (the married ones) laugh about their wives and swap tips on how to avoid detection.

Apparently the poor little lambs can't help themselves.

Take a look for yourselves: www. ukpunting. com

AIBU that those of us who are genuinely pissed off with the misogynistic bullshit half of the users spout on there should set up fake profiles (not using your usual email address) and spam the shit of them?

And this isn't against WGs....you can do what you like with your body. It's the disgusting human beings that are cheating on their wives and partners and being smug thinking it's a bloody game...

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Hello,
I have just read your post regarding the fore mentioned topic. I was wondering if you would be interested in reading something from a non perverted decent-ish-type of person as to why they have used punternet in the past.

I must add that having read your comment-albeit a year or so late-I was pretty disgusted, not by you but what you found I honestly did not know it went that far

I would be happy to explain why I used it, why I have paid for sex and what my motives and thoughts are.

I could have done so in this message I just did not want to bore you or come across as some one trying to justify my actions.

Hello,
I have just read your post regarding the fore mentioned topic. I was wondering if you would be interested in reading something from a non perverted decent-ish-type of person as to why they have used punternet in the past.

I must add that having read your comment-albeit a year or so late-I was pretty disgusted, not by you but what you found I honestly did not know it went that far

I would be happy to explain why I used it, why I have paid for sex and what my motives and thoughts are.

I could have done so in this message I just did not want to bore you or come across as some one trying to justify my actions.

I hope you do not mind me mailing you, I thought it best in the first instance.

It's UK Punting fromthethisside not Punternet. Not that it matters, both organisations objectify women.

Spill.

Kestant, your correct. It is my complete disrespect for them both that caused my confusion-Ignorance-As to the proper name.

I have read through the comments, they are right, what reason or justification could I ever possibly give to having used a prostitute? None what so ever. Except to say I would not ever have intercourse with a lady who did not want to have complete sex with me. I could "Spill" so to speak if I could do so with out being ousted as a "Perv" or desperate person. I just came here to give a different perspective on the whole "Prostitute" conversation. Why men may use ladies for such purposes.I have a profound understanding of why both men and women participate in such a filed. I just did not want to come here and argue, or debate a subject where I was the "Enemy" end of.

I was wondering if you would be interested in reading something from a non perverted decent-ish-type of person as to why they have used punternet in the past

I can only speak for myself but I have no interest in hearing any pathetic self- serving excuses as to why a punter might pay to masturbate into a the vagina of a prostitute (I will not use that ridiculous euphemism "working girl")

And , no you are not a "decent-ish type of person"

Clearly they are by definition and probably by their own admission sad and pathetic but perhaps not scum

No, I think "scum" covers it quite nicely.

This one sentence sums up everything I need to know about you From ...... Why men may use ladies for such purposes. Anyone who thinks another human being is there to be 'used' has nothing to say I want to hear.

This is not too dissimilar to politics, you either vote one way or the other. The other is the scum of the earth, regardless of their ideology. You can not and will not abide by their way of thinking.

Please excuse my use of the word "Their" I may have not used it in the correct English pronunciation.

Above comment suggests if I was interested in reading something from punternet, NO I am not interested, why? please read my initial comment. It is a shame you are not aware of my definition.

I would have liked to give a perspective on this subject, rightly or wrongly, but if your view is "Scum" you will never learn why such practices are in place and why they continue be so. I offered to explain you call me scum, right wing left wing feminism ect ect ect.

You wanted to have sex with a woman, and paid someone to let you do it. It's not rocket science.

We're just not interested in the justifications or your particular story as it makes no difference.

I thought this was going to be a thread about one of the Cambridge boat punting companies. Was wondering What on earth they’d done to women!

I can only speak for myself but I have no interest in hearing any pathetic self- serving excuses as to why a punter might pay to masturbate into a the vagina of a prostitute (I will not use that ridiculous euphemism "working girl")

I agree.

you will never learn why such practices are in place and why they continue be so

How patronising. We know full well why 'such practices' are in place. We've heard every excuse in the book. What ever you have to say it will be nothing new.

So did I MrsJoshDunn. I'm from Cambridge and thought it was going to be a thread about Scudamore

I've never heard of these websites befire but am not surprised they exist. More exploitation of vulnerable women. And now we have men coming onto the thread to 'explain'.

Had a look at the U.K. punting website and the worse bit for me is the reviews of the Chinese/Thai women who according to the men themselves barely speak any English. Surely the men can’t be stupid enough to not realise that these women have been sex trafficked and are basically slaves? These men are fueling the modern slave trade by having sex with these women. Just because the women aren’t screaming “no” doesn’t mean that it’s not against their will. They will feel they have no choice.

I have been on this site a long time under another name, usually as a reader, occasional poster, but can't remember my password so rejoined. I am a guy, but under no illusions about how depraved many guys are. Sex crimes are almost wholly committed by men, and women constantly underestimate how dangerous and how obsessed with sex men can be. UK punters are a sad bunch of losers, but an outlet for sex may prevent some poor soul being violently attacked. And let's face it, men don't have any of the self control women have, they also have a million times the sex drive. Its fashionable to deny there is any difference in sex drive but it's simply not true. I am old enough to remember the 'Scum' magazine, 'Society for cutting up Men' and their assertion that men would wade across a river of snot for sex. Broken glass too. I was pretty active (obssesed with sex) but out of the hundreds of women I slept with... only met two women who had my obsessive appetite. Both owned brothels and had gravitated to that business through inclination. No money changed hands and to be frank. being teased and then raped and bit and scratched was not an experience I wanted to repeat. They would not have treated their customers like that, at least the ordinary ones, but with me they were themselves, we were friends too.
I admire the way women keep seeing the best in men. They keep trying, but men serially abuse women, cheat on women and lie to women. Obviously women do too, but the sheer scale of mens infidelity is staggering. If you get a good guy hang on to them, but don't have any illusions. I read of a scientific study about dating which gave a long list of the attributes women seek in a partner, someone they would date. It runs to many pages and takes account of lots of social, emotional and empathetic factors. They study every manner of factor in an attempt to reach a decision about someone they trust enough to go out with. For men it was summarised as.......what the woman looks like. Men are shallow in the main. sad but true. Thank God we have women and speed the day when they run the world.

Wissem how sad to have such a depressing view of your own sex.

UK punters are a sad bunch of losers, but an outlet for sex may prevent some poor soul being violently attacked. Ridiculous. I hate this perception that men are incapable of reason and restraint, thus absolving you of any responsibility.

And let's face it, men don't have any of the self control women have,

I was with you up until this point. Fuck right off with that enabling attitude. Men can control themselves if they want to.

What a horrible thought; that we need to sacrifice some women to keep the safe rest.

It's awful.

I refuse to accept some women being used as collateral because men refuse to change their behaviours.

Couldn't agree more.

Eugh, rapey men showing off how repulsive they are. They can try and justify it all they want but they fail on so many counts.

1. How many of these men have any concern as to if the woman is trafficked or just trying to pay for food for her kids? Do they care if they're raping her?

1. If it's just sex, and not meant to hurt anyone, why are so many of the comments so utterly disrespectful towards the women? They take pleasure in talking shit about these women.

1. If it's all so fine, why aren't they honest with their girlfriends and wives? Why do they take their partners free choice over who they want to be with and over ride it? Why is what they want more important than what their wives might want?

1. Would they been perfectly fine with their wives having meaningless one night stands with hard bodied, well hung 19 year old men who don't need to pop pills to get it up? They should be absolutely cool with it right?

1. Would they support their daughters or wives if they wanted to be prostitutes? If not, why not? It's so liberating and great for women isn't it?

1. Why are so many working girls raped and murdered if it's purely just about having their "needs" for sex met, and not about getting off on buying a woman, and an actually hatred of them?

These men sicken me, they don't see women as actual human beings, they're so painfully inadequate they try to make themselves feel more manly by buying power over someone else, in fact white men have a particularly long history of this, always needing to oppress someone else to make themselves feel more powerful.

Sex is not a right, it's not owed to anyone. Put more effort into your relationships, and you'd get it for free, but it's not really about the sex is it? It's about the power.

but an outlet for sex may prevent some poor soul being violently attacked

Men who rape don't do it out of desperation for sex, they do it because they get off on rape. They would be just as keen to rape a prostitute as they would to rape any other woman.

Logically if those men cannot control themselves, why aren't more women literally leapt on in the streets, in shops, at workplaces? Why isn't it an hourly, daily public occurrence?

Because they know it's wrong and society would judge and punish them.

So they control themselves, enough to rape women "quietly", hidden away somewhere.

The key bit is they can control themselves. They choose not to.

A bit like how abusers "lose control" enough to slap a wife, beat her, but they'd never just snap her neck, no, that would be too far.