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Don't even know if I'm asking AIBU - I don't know what to think! Postman!

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strawberrisc · 21/02/2017 13:59

I work in education so I am off work at the moment - along with my 13 year old daughter as it's half-term.

We've already been out for the last few days and so we're having a lazy day today before going out tomorrow. Despite stocking up she fancied a sandwhich with the one filling I don't have and I fancied a walk - albeit a 5 minute one. The shop is literally a 5 minute walk from our cul-de-sac.

I didn't lock the door because a) you can't break wind in this road without everyone knowing b) both sets of neighbours are in and b) I worry about locking the door and there being a fire.

I was gone less then 15 minutes. When I came back my daughter shouted, as I came in 'is that you? Someone opened the door and came in'. When I looked the postman had left a parcel in my hallway.

I don't know what to think for a number of reasons.

He's a decent guy and we've chatted on several occasions. He's been on this route for years.

But also: when I'm in work his collegue leaves one of those awful cards where I have to go all the way to the sorting office. However, this postman always leaves parcels in my lean-to between the wheelie bins. Why on earth would today be any different? It's a quite close so why would he even try the door and not leave the parcel in the usual place?

OP posts:
Doobydoo · 22/02/2017 15:23

GrinBaby

Doobydoo · 22/02/2017 15:25

I didnt realise the severity of the rudeyness until i re read itBlushBlush

AQuietMind · 22/02/2017 15:44

I don't understand why anyone would want a yale type lock on their door, If I moved into a house with one it would be the first thing I would get rid of and I would get a proper lock fitted.

AQuietMind · 22/02/2017 15:46

licked himself out and sat in the shed till we came home! Grin

@Dooby That is hilarious

Babybubblescomingsoon · 22/02/2017 15:48

dooby i didn't realise the rudeness of it until after I'd commented ! Blush

Doobydoo · 22/02/2017 15:56

Oh Gawd Blush

Ontopofthesunset · 22/02/2017 16:05

Well, I wonder whether it's different parts of the country or different types of houses but I honestly don't know anyone who has a front door that needs manual locking. They all have double locks for extra security when you go out.

CharlieDimmocksbosoms · 27/02/2017 18:56

Sorry OP I misread original post and when you said
I didn't lock the door because a) you can't break wind in this road without everyone knowing b) both sets of neighbours are in and b) I worry about locking the door and there being a fire.
I thought you meant you all frequently left doors unlocked.

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