Husband is a thoughtless git

[Chickydoo]

So have just blown a gasket.
Worked this morning, now working at my laptop, presentations to prepare.
Can smell yummy smells downstairs. DH
Preparing lunch.
I nipped down and had a look.
Roast pork with all the trimmings.
I don't eat pork, however I would be fine with the veg and potatoes, maybe a few extra mushrooms or something.
Went back upstairs carried on with work.
Got quite bogged down with it, assumed lunch must be ready, went in to kitchen to find DH & the 2 teens who are home today clearing up. They had eaten the lot! Not even a potato left. I am so cross. I cook every day of the week for all of them, but today I was busy & not even offered lunch:(

It is our anniversary tomorrow, apparently he is playing golf.
I think I am being a mug

Rant over

That's awful!

So what did you say to them and what was their response?

Did they forget you were upstairs ?

My DH did that to me when I came in from a 12 hr shift, on the pretence that it wasn't what I liked.

The next evening I served everyone but him, said oh it wasn't what you liked.

I would have read them the riot act.

And told them they were on their own for dinner for the foreseeable future.

Do.Not.Cook.For.Them.Again.This Month.

Seriously. Don't do. And let DH do the shopping for him and the teens, too.

Selfish ass.

And I think golf should be off tomorrow. He'll have to shop and cook for himself and the kids, right!?

Wow, just wow

What did he say about it OP?

Appalling behaviour from your dh ad pretty shitty from your kids.

I think your dh owes you a very nice meal out, a bit apology and maybe needs to take a look at himself in the minor, it really does sound like either he was making a point (your working, not joining in with us) or he is simply a thoughtless git.

I'm guessing this is not the whole story, sadly.

BIG apology not bit!

What was his excuse? It's just so rude!

Well the most amazing bit of this post for me is that when you came downstairs, a man and 2 teenagers were clearing up after themselves.

I would be livid!

Tell them you're going on strike and not doing any cooking for the foreseeable. Today's events have shown they don't appreciate you one iota.

Order a takeaway tonight just for yourself.

Very selfish and disrespectful to your hard work in the week.

A sit down conversation is needed here.

Fucking prick.
i wouldn't cook for him again this year. Next year.... maybe not then either.

It's really hurtful, and not the behaviour of someone who loves you

Enjoy your solo takeaway tonight!

What a bellend.

I can't imagine cooking a big dinner like that and not feeding it to everyone. If it was some toast, or he had made something like fish fingers for the children fair enough.

So everyone else has eaten for the day and you have had nothing then?

I love mumsnet
I am so glad most of you would have been pissed off too.
I am just pouring a large bubble bath will have a glass of vino, naice olives & crisps & the twunt can just look on.
(Well not look on literally because if he thinks he can look at me in the bath he can jog on)
I am on a cooking strike until he realises what a selfish moron he is!!!!

Dh has a bit of a habit of making himself a cup of tea and not asking if I would like one - it is mildly irritating, and I have mentioned it calmly to him.

But he wouldn't dream of making himself a meal without offering me food too!

We are supposed to be going out tonight, I will Re-tell to our friends & see what they think. I hope he's embarrassed!

He's a cunt isn't he? What was his explanation?

I'd be sticking his golf club where the sun don't shine