OOAOML always happy to have a grown-up respectful debate, even if we don't agree. I agree that the Brexit referendum was handled extremely badly and has left the country with some big problems. Both campaigns were run disgracefully, with misleading statements about NHS funding and immigration (don't get me started on Nigel Farage!) on the leave side, and outrageous predictions and an unrealistic vision of the EU as a stable haven of peace and love on the remain side. In retrospect, a lesson for the future would be that no major constitutional change should occur without a substantial majority so that it is decisive. I actually feel quite sorry for Theresa May because she's in an awful position that was Cameron's making. Having said that, I'm not sure what plan could be laid out (and still can be laid out) without the EU's consent, as surely everything has to be agreed with them. The best the government could do would be to publish a wishlist of things they want, which unfortunately would probably weaken their position during the negotiations. It's a rock and hard place type of situation.
I don't necessarily agree that any plan is better than no plan though, as a plan that is a pile of nonsense is no better and may actually be more damaging than playing it by ear. I think the 2014 white paper has been largely shown to be nonsense - imagine if Scotland had become independent and had then had to try and go forward according to those proposals?
Lastnight I totally agree that the lack of opposition is extremely frustrating, and I really wish Labour would sort themselves out as I think an effective opposition is vital. Would the SNP provide that though (ignoring the issue of the number of seats)? They speak as one voice, all the time, but I think that's because dissent is not tolerated rather than genuine unity, and I actually find it quite chilling. I think a range of views have to be allowed to be expressed, sometimes publically, in a healthy democracy, otherwise you will only ever see very narrow agendas being pushed.
And yes, Scotland has a minority of seats in the house because it is a small proportion of the UK population. Anything else would be giving Scotland a special advantage, and would be democratically unacceptable. A party that only stands in Scotland will therefore never have enough seats to have a genuine influence, or, indeed, be 'stronger for Scotland'. You'd have to take that one up with the SNP. However, if/when Scotland votes for nationwide parties it can have, and has had a very significant voice at Westminster; it is less than a decade since both the prime minister and chancellor were Scottish.