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To ask am I bisexual or is this normal?

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Zerofucksgivenyes · 26/01/2017 20:04

I am a married woman in her late 20's with 3 DC's. I've only ever been in relationships with men, no desire to be in a relationship with a woman. I have many female friends who I don't find attractive or have a desire to have sex with. My DH is Thor only person who has ever made me orgasm and I find him physically attractive. I am a girly girl, not in the slightest bit butch.

The question comes in that the only thing that will get me off is thinking of a woman's naked body. I simply cannot orgasm unless I am watching porn with women in or thinking about a naked woman. This has been that way since I was very young. I have had fantasies about having sex with women but I think that if push came to shove I couldn't do it.

I am so confused - does this mean I'm bisexual? Is this normal for a straight woman to feel like this?

OP posts:
BartholinsSister · 27/01/2017 06:45

OP, you're Sif, am I right?

Zerofucksgivenyes · 27/01/2017 07:45

barth what's does Sif stand for?

Also to the people that have taken "offence" to my girly comment - I was trying to portray that I'm "classically straight" along with all the other points I've listed like no fancying women in RL, enjoying sex with my DH. I KNOW that there are girly lesbians 🙄

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Foreverlexicon · 27/01/2017 08:29

It's a very irritating stereotype, that's all.

If I had a pound for each time someone says 'But you don't LOOK like a lesbian'

I have an excellent comeback but sadly rarely appropriate 😂

BartholinsSister · 27/01/2017 08:59

Thor is/was Sif's husband Grin

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